Post Date December, 03 2023
As the saying goes, "It's easy to fall in love but difficult to stay together." So, with the seven year itch, marriage becomes the tomb of love. We can always argue over too many trivial matters, where small holes become big holes, disagreements become enmities, and ultimately, we end up with tears in our eyes.
The marital discord between couples can often manifest many symptoms. A thousand couples can have ten thousand excuses for marital discord. For example, he doesn't love me enough, their personalities don't match, she likes to nag, he doesn't have a sense of responsibility to find women outside, and so on.
So, what is the real culprit that leads to marital discord?
1. Mismatch between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
We have always wanted to know the proportion of disharmony between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in marriage, and I believe this number is quite astonishing. When the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were at odds, the problem arose.
On the one hand, the daughter-in-law originally bullied her husband with a mentality of "carving a gem", but in the eyes of her mother-in-law, she was not. So both sides engaged in a tug of war over this man; On the other hand, if either mother-in-law or daughter-in-law experiences any grievances, they will go to the man's side, and even the smallest problem may become a major one. Over time, the man will lose his immunity and patience, and eventually it will erupt.
2. The child is disobedient
According to observations, in many families with happy marriages, having good children is a necessary factor. Children are the hope of a family, as long as they do not obey, all kinds of entanglements and contradictions come.
3. My husband can't make money
Speaking of this, I have to angrily scold this house price, as most of the contradictions stem from it.
Women believe that men cannot make money, men have words of hardship, there is a saying that poor couples are always sad, men have low self-esteem, women complain about horizontal comparison of love, and even a good emotional foundation cannot withstand much turmoil.
4. Wife is always good for others
Men are all fast eating animals. The two of them spend every day together, becoming much more bored and numb. No matter how beautiful and sexy their wife is, they turn a blind eye. No matter how many advantages they have, they still think that someone else's wife is better.
This is the root of a man's bad nature. It's not his fault, it's in today's turbulent society.
5. Sexual disharmony
More than 80% of marital discord is more or less related to sexual disharmony between couples. But this matter is also the easiest to keep in people's hearts, and no one is willing to say it, often even the other party doesn't know.
