Post Date December, 03 2023
In today's society, the relationship between men and women is no longer as simple as before. Nowadays, there are many more names for the relationship between men and women, such as "red and blue", as well as many "sworn" brothers and sisters, etc. Not only is there only love between men and women in the past, but also there are more friendships, family ties, and friendships beyond love. Therefore, there are many unclear ambiguities that follow.
Six types of male and female relationships that are most prone to ambiguity
Brother or sister
For a "brother", the significance of the existence of a little sister is to make him have a desire to protect her. When a man's inner heroism needs to be poured out, when he feels helpless and lonely, the cleverness and tenderness of the "little sister" often make him feel more comfortable than ordinary tenderness and consideration, and her worship of him makes him feel particularly confident, just satisfying a certain spiritual conquest desire of a man. For "sister", what she wants is very simple - to be loved and protected.
For "Sister", before having a perfect boyfriend, "Brother" was a very caring little follower. He had the dual benefits of a man and a boy, and he would not deliberately mess with her. When she was in trouble, he would not betray her vows, and when her motherhood revealed, he became a cute and naive "little thing.". For "younger brother", "older sister" is often a trustworthy and feminine woman.
Potential crisis: In real life, it is often difficult for most "family" relationships to evolve into true love relationships. In such relationships, there are more elements of compassion and affection, less common language, let alone experience. Moreover, the feelings of "younger brothers and sisters" towards "older brothers and sisters" are often more heavy and complex, and it is easy to get caught up in it and find it difficult to extricate oneself. Once "ambiguity" is excessive, and once "older brothers and sisters" have a lover, "younger brothers and sisters" will inevitably become a stumbling block.
Red and blue
When feeling bored and encountering various difficulties in life, they become fish that "rub shoulders with each other". Once the sea returns to tide, they swim independently. Even if both parties have lovers, some private and intimate words are only spoken to the "red face and blue face".
To some extent, this kind of relationship between men and women is mostly a spiritual level of love, which can be said that compared to a lover relationship, they only lack physical communication.
Even the most innocent confidante with a red face and a blue face can easily be misunderstood as a third party if one of their lovers is not open and sensible enough; Secondly, after all, it is a man and a woman who, once "drinking with a bosom friend for a thousand cups is insufficient," become overly affectionate, and inevitably "undress and untie". Once the last line of defense is broken, the "bosom friend" relationship will be difficult to continue.
Online lover
On the internet, they "fall in love", even hold weddings, and have never met two strangers. Word games are a source of mutual dependence and interest. They are addicted to it, and the internet makes them look "perfect".
Unlike ordinary online romances, most of these online lovers do not meet, but rely on their imagination of each other to create various romantic atmospheres and assumptions. Unlike real life love, online lovers pay a very low cost and do not need to bear moral pressure. Because what we love each other is just a maze created by our own imagination and words. So in case, in case of meeting, the consequences are hard to imagine.
Part-time parents
Their relationship has mostly developed through work cooperation. Many times, it is mostly women who take the initiative and believe that it is natural for men to take care of them, while men's "heroism" mentality makes them feel honored most of the time. In this relationship, more components are often utilized.
Because such relationships are based on simple "mutual care and utilization", both men and women often lack a common language. Once care fails or the "service" is not attentive, it can easily lead to deterioration of the relationship. In addition, some rumors often appear around such "part-time parents". Maybe you just hitchhiked someone's ride, but how do others know where the train ends?
Dating partner
They are not lovers, but they often date, travel, drink, watch movies... and are regular dating partners. In a popular sense, it can also be understood as "wine and meat friends". They often share a common interest in a certain hobby or behavior, and can come and go with joy on every date. It also belongs to the fishing mode of Jiang Taigong, who wants to accompany and is willing to accompany.
Heterosexual joint tenancy
Compared to sharing a house with the same sex, sharing a house with men and women brings more feelings of pleasure, trust, and relaxation. Like the meaning of "matching men and women, not tiring work" in the office, this new tenant relationship is full of another sense of interest. According to the survey, most women who share a flat with the opposite sex believe that men do not haggle with women over details such as the size and orientation of the room, as well as who uses more or less of the bathroom. The situation between women and women is much more complex, and in serious cases, it can lead to disagreements and friends turning against each other.
Real men and women who rent together respect each other, maintain a distance, and help each other. For both parties, they not only experience most of the advantages of the opposite sex, but also avoid the trouble of mutual suspicion, monopolization, and haggling.
The house itself is already very ambiguous, with single men and women sharing a room, even if not a room, which is already very, very close. People returning home often restore themselves to their true nature, exposing random, free, casual, and even ugly details of their lives to each other. Although some people have developed into lovers due to their close lifestyles, they are still a couple with a distance. The opposite sex of sharing a house can easily develop into lovers, evolving from sharing to cohabitation.
However, if you seek accommodation due to temporary blindness or a mindset of solving personal problems, you may be used by someone with ulterior motives, hurting feelings, and disrupting life.
(Intern Editor: Zhao Minqing)
