Post Date December, 02 2023
1. Swear by heaven
This method is very old, but also very simple and effective! Most Chinese believe that after taking a false oath, they will get retribution. When you suspect that the other party is lying, if you say "I don't believe it, swear!" in a coquettish and joking tone, the other party will reply with "Why is it so boring?", "I didn't do it again, why do you ask me to swear?" and other words, and even lose temper. Congratulations, it's probably true, otherwise why should the reaction be so fierce?. Many lovers will doubt whether he is faithful to himself or not? Did you lie? Love you enough? It is reasonable to have such doubts because we value them. If we don't care, how can we want to understand him better and get closer to his heart? However, if doubt has become the main theme of your love, don't forget that sincerity is the cornerstone of love. When trust has been lost, love has lost its value.
2. Many gifts are deceitful
When he is suddenly very kind to you, you should be careful. He always puts his work or friends first, and he never spends much time and effort on you, but today he suddenly calls you to show his concern; A big piece of wood that is usually forgotten even on birthdays or anniversaries, but suddenly bought a thoughtful gift for you; Suddenly accompany you to do the things he didn't like most before; Or suddenly accompany you to watch movies he doesn't like; Or I will help you cook and wash clothes suddenly And so on, this "mutation" of "more courtesy and more deceit" must be to cover up and kill your inner uneasiness and guilt.
3. Pay attention to small movements
According to psychological theory, when a person lies, there are often involuntary and fixed small actions. This is not the plot of God of Gambling. In the clinical research of criminal psychology, it is also found that when a criminal lies, he can often observe some fixed small actions, such as looking right in front, touching his nose, rubbing his palms, blinking, sweating, stuttering, etc. These small actions vary from person to person, but as long as he has been observed for a long time and carefully, he must know when he is a "ace liar".
4. Remember one lie, ten lies will show up
Lying will become a habit, and some people have developed the habit of using lies to make up lies. However, unless he is a born liar, it is easy to cover up a lie, and no one will know it for a lifetime; However, after telling ten lies, a hundred lies and a thousand lies, even the liar can't figure out what he said? You just need to "spot check" one thing he said to ensure that he will show his horse's feet, but when probing, you should have some skills, and don't let him be wary!
5. Ask his friend
The most typical way for a man to lie is to use many non-existent excuses to fool you, and nine out of ten are related to his friends! Lying must contain five elements of "fiction": people, things, time, place and things. Only the element of "person" has clues to trace. Next time, when he makes you suspect, once the lie is told, immediately ask the person who constitutes the lie, and nine out of ten, it is too late to trick; In addition, people will tell you whether the other party's words are true only when they "fight with each other's friends". So, smart women, now start to woo their comrades-in-arms.
6. Poor attendance
Has he been acting strangely recently? Occasionally, it suddenly disappears at three or five o'clock. After it appears, it is said that the company has urgent matters (probably where to hide and talk about actions), and no one can be seen at the end of the day. After it appears, it is said that it is because the company director has a temporary meeting (there are really not so many meetings to be held); The situation of being late for appointments is becoming more and more serious, but the "vanishing situation" such as traffic jam and going to the toilet is used as an excuse. It is only once or twice. If it is too frequent, it is likely that the other party has something to hide deliberately.
7. Love without signal
The communication equipment is in frequent condition, and the road of love must hide the crisis. Social observers said that communication technology has shortened the distance between each other, but also widened the distance between them. However, if his communication technology often fails, we should be careful whether the distance between them is getting farther and farther. On holidays or late at night, the cell phone is always turned off, the phone at home is always not answered, and the call is often not answered. These "communication barriers" represent that the other party must have hidden something, and the situation has reached a point of seriousness.
8. Attack the enemy unprepared
When a person is extremely happy, he is bound to forget. If you have doubts about his sincerity for a long time, don't break it first and try not to react for some time. One day, when the other party is extremely happy, he will suddenly attack the other party unprepared to make a challenge, and guarantee that he will stumble, suddenly lose his mind, and reveal the truth of the lie.
