Post Date April, 15 2023
The first post: cut it all
Women's first day, men's fifteenth. The dream lover in the fantasy cannot become a fact, and the best result is of course to leave as soon as possible. Be careful not to hurt your self-esteem too much. Feelings are like a knot, and what cannot be broken must be cut. "Cut" will definitely bleed, but the faster and sharper the action, the lighter the injury. If you let her cut at you first, of course you will be injured! No matter how things happen, being a man is of course unbearable. The whole person's fighting spirit is lost and life is completely lost. But time can soothe everything. After a few weeks, your wound must heal. Never lie down and die for a woman.
Eight psychological prescriptions for treating lovelorn men
The second post: kick away
After the breakdown of the relationship, the negotiation is useless and can only prolong the pain. If you still think she is perfect, please carefully see how perfect she is. You list the unacceptable places in her character and record the reasons why "without her" can live better. Every time you feel dizzy and dizzy, look at her guilt again. Don't think it's too mean. It's only good. Be firm and kick her out of your world!
The third post: Everything is like a dream
Is lovelorn really faceless? After things happen, whether it is lonely, heartbreak, sad, whatever you feel is good, but the wreckage always needs someone to clean up. Don't think that losing love is faceless. Even if it is true that you are no longer loved, why should others think so? It's no big deal to lose love, let alone "lose face". We can't be together again, but we should be separated. We should be proud of our decision. At the same time, you should firmly believe that the previous love is only a dream, and that the broken love is a dream.
The fourth post: gone without trace
Whether you are affectionate or not, don't be tempted by desire. Sometimes you will have hallucinations, as if the nightmare has passed, and everything can be better again. If she leaves, she has shown her attitude with facts, and it is not worth your effort to change anything. If you continue to communicate, you will be stuck in the mud. Who doesn't know that the deeper the relationship between lovers after breaking up, the worse the situation will be? When your consciousness is not firm, do you remember the scene when she turned away in your tears?
The fifth post: "naked"
Even if a woman wants to break up, she likes to put a thread and say, "If we are predestined, we may be together again." Don't be fooled. The so-called "one thread of life" is just a joke. Although you seem to feel relaxed, she is actually playing cat and mouse. The subtext is, you poor man, don't be depressed and sad. I may need your help! Now acknowledge that your relationship is over. A naked chest is always refreshing.
Sixth post: fearless
You should tell yourself a truth: people are often afraid of losing her when you pursue her; When you get her, you will be afraid that she will move on. When the lovelorn volcano erupts, you should relax and relax mentally, and the so-called courage is nothing more than that. Just a woman, why not be afraid!
The seventh post: keep silent
From the first day after the breakup, you should decide to shut up. Although good friends surround you and tell you her shortcomings to comfort you. At this time, you must not open your mouth to compromise, damage the reputation of your ex-girlfriend, or at least force yourself to "deny her". The compassion of all people can only make your wounds worse. The most serious thing is that you will become the object of mercy. This will cause fatal damage to your male image. It is meaningless to pretend not to care, but to keep silent is Shibi Jinjian!
The eighth post: once in a lifetime
Finally, if you still feel difficult to explain, then believe in fate! It is not enough to prove that a few times of lovelorn love. Admit that luck plays an important role in love. How many falls did you fall before you learned to walk? love? Finally, it is just a game! A failed love is more fortunate than a failed marriage.
