The highest honor of a man in his life is not how important or rich he is, but how he is called a good husband by his wife and everyone. The word "husband" carries too many things, including love, family, career, responsibility, etc. Without any content, you can't be considered a good husband. A really good husband should meet the following eight standards!
Standard 1: invincible
Those men who have failed once and then complain, are depressed, fall down and can't get up must not take it. A man should be able to give women a sense of security. If you find a husband who can't take care of you, and often cry about his misfortune in front of you, so that you can also bear the pain that he can actually save, it is a very failure.
Standard 2: unswerving
Needless to say, I believe that all women do not want their husbands to come out. You should know that marriage is not only love, but also responsibility. If you are not loyal, you will lack a sense of responsibility, and sooner or later you will have disloyalty.
Standard 3: broad-minded
You must not find a petty man, even if he loves you. But you are jealous because of little things. Whether you go out to socialize with your boss on business or have a party with friends who haven't been around for many years for private reasons, the man who makes a big noise after you go home or doesn't pay attention to you with a sullen face for a long time is actually selfish.
Of course, he will say that he is jealous because he loves you. But don't forget, love a person and give her freedom. Sisters must not be housewives who are disguised by men to keep you at home and can only do laundry and cooking. Not that housewives are bad, but as women in this society, they should have their own social circle, be independent and self-reliant, and never find men who cannot give themselves free space.
Standard 4: strong body
The man is not required to be strong and tall, but he must be healthy. A woman has some physical problems, which can be called impotence. If a man is sick all day, what do you say?
Standard 5: independence
No one says that filial piety is wrong. Filial men are very kind. However, everything between husband and wife asks others for their opinions. They have no own opinions. They always say "Mom said, Mom said..." in front of such a mother, they must not take the baby. Remember, you are marrying a man, not a "baby".
Standard 6: Love your family
If a man really loves you, he will love everything about you, including your bad habits, your friends, your family... If he can't tolerate the defects of your friends or family in some aspects or is dissatisfied with the people around you, then as a smart woman, he should avoid meeting them as much as possible; If he is too demanding to ask you to cut off contact with them, don't hesitate to dump him!
Standard 7: economic strength
Love is very important, but it should be based on bread. You don't have to be rich, but you need to have security in your life. If a man can't even pay for his baby's milk powder, he will start to worry about the house payment for the next month at the beginning of this month, so you will have to suffer with him.
Standard 8: Self-confidence and self-improvement
A man who exudes a sense of confidence can make women rely on him. Women need a sense of security. Only a man with confidence can become a safe haven for women. But he has no confidence in himself. Who can help you? Women don't want to find a "burden". So, men, hurry to be confident and self-reliant!