Easily building a harmonious marriage

Marriage requires management. Properly managed, harmonious husband and wife, and a happy life; Poor management, husband and wife turning against each other, scars and spots. Want to stand undefeated in marriage? Take a look at how the 10 wise men and women in the article all achieved extraordinary success.

Building archives for my husband's "bad" records

Swallow summarized the reasons for the frequent quarrels in her two years of marriage and found that her memory was really poor! Although my husband may have a lot of faults, when the two of them were arguing, he could easily reveal a lot of Swallow's faults. However, Swallow couldn't remember his "criminal record", and as a result, he only listened to his criticism.

After experiencing several humiliating experiences, the Swallow specially prepared a diary to record her husband's "crimes": getting drunk and returning late on a certain day, forgetting to give flowers and gifts on a commemorative day, and actually playing cards with a few gambling friends under the pretext of working overtime... This is called "no unprepared battle". With this magic weapon, when the Swallow quarrels again, she just needs to calmly retrieve this notebook, and the husband will be dumbfounded!

Comment: As the saying goes, a good memory is not as good as a bad pen. It is recommended that those who often have a poor argument should not be lazy and create a file for the other party to settle accounts in autumn.

Be good at nurturing a charming wife

Qiao Qiao is the youngest in the family, and the ability to act coquettishly can be said to be innate. After marrying Ah Feng, her "charm" continued unabated. It is a good temper to also catch up with A Feng, and to unconditionally meet Qiao Qiao's reasonable and unreasonable demands. Let's say this summer, the stove in Nanjing is about to change into an oven, but Qiao Qiao's family cannot turn on the air conditioner because Qiao Qiao gets sick when he blows on the air conditioner, so the air conditioner has become a decoration since he bought it.

Qiao Qiao and A Feng are even hotter, but they still have to serve their wives. At night, Qiao Qiao couldn't sleep due to the loud noise of the fan. Ah Feng was so surprised that he could flip out the big cattail fan that his mother had pressed on the bottom of the box and give it to her for half the night! A friend joked that A Feng was too "filial", but A Feng had no choice but to say, "Who would make my wife act spoiled? If I make her unhappy for a while, I will suffer all day long.

Comment: In the art of war, there is a great strategy called 'subduing soldiers without fighting'. Attention, female compatriots. Even if he is a hundred steelmakers, we can transform him into a gentle figure. Of course, the premise is that he must have a heart of pity for the fragrance and the jade.

Occasionally 'deaf'

Aunt Chen loves to nag and enters menopause before the age of 45. She often nags her children, causing them to see stars in their eyes and treating her mother as a Tang monk in "Journey to the West". Of course, the person who suffered the most was Lao Chen. Aunt Chen has the ability to nag him so hard that she can't find him. As time passed, Old Chen also "explored" a set of experiences, which is "passing through a thousand flowers, not touching the leaves". No matter how Auntie Ren Chen "spits lotus flowers", Old Chen only regards it as background music, what to do, just intermittently cooperate with an approved expression and everything will be okay!

Comment: It is said that women who are older tend to nag and are related to their physiological structure. It is unlikely that men will want to have a clean ear. However, adopting Lao Chen's ostrich policy is not undesirable. The most crucial thing is to be afraid of her suddenly asking, "Where did I just say

Cleverly Using the Way of Yang Fengyin Contrary

Dali's wife is famous for her knife like mouth and tofu like heart, and she hates Dali who doesn't strive for self-improvement, but never becomes steel. Dali has been willing to be a small employee for seven or eight years, but he has his own philosophy. His life is just a few decades, so what is he working hard for? Faced with his wife's criticism, Dali agreed to everything on the surface, but secretly remained the same. Anyway, you can't supervise 24 hours a day and let you nag and forget about it.

Comment: On the surface, there's a trick behind the back, you really have no way to deal with him! In fact, it's okay to be close. Sometimes life can't be too serious.

Learn to fly kites

Ning Xin's family strategy is to govern without doing anything, with each spouse having their own busy schedules and a relatively narrow circle of life. At first, Ning Xin was also afraid that the kite might break the string? In fact, the more cautious one is, the more frequent the fighting is. Instead, they let go and became more considerate to each other. Now Ning Xin and her husband are getting married on weekends. One often goes out, the other goes out early and returns late, and the two often can't even touch each other. However, every small parting made them feel a longing for each other, and the result of inaction was that love was stronger than gold.

Comment: This move is only suitable for those who are self-disciplined and in love. If used by someone with a different heart, it can serve as a shield.

Praise the saved silver

The city has married a beautiful woman, who wants to eat top-notch and dress upscale. The city belongs to the white-collar family, and although it is not difficult to make ends meet, it also has to plan. In order to prevent the beautiful woman from realizing that her money was tight, the city often used praise to deceive her. For example, today when a beautiful woman goes to work, she doesn't know what to wear. Cheng Cheng quickly picked up the dress she bought last year and praised it, saying that another female colleague saw her wearing it last time and kept asking where she bought it!

As soon as the beauty was happy, she temporarily shelved her plan to buy clothes this weekend. Sometimes when I see a beautiful woman spinning around in front of the mirror, the city takes the opportunity to compliment her and then casually says, 'This dress is a bit tight, just a larger size would be great.'. The beautiful woman immediately screamed: From today on, no more fish and meat will spoil. I will switch to eating coarse grains and lose weight!

Comment: Sometimes the 'enemy' is too powerful, and a frontal attack is not enough. It's better to detour a bit, and you can receive a miraculous effect!

Fight poison with poison

When she wasn't married, what Lulu most appreciated was Da Feng's liveliness. He had many friends and had a wide social network, making it difficult to stop in her spare time. Lulu felt that this kind of life was colorful enough. After marriage, Lulu can't bear it anymore! He ran out for an outing, had a party, and left a lot of work at home for Lulu! Lulu gave a little attention, and Dafeng became very impatient, saying that women change as soon as they get married.

Lulu's heart beats, you can play with me! Gathering with classmates, shopping, hiking Da Feng found that Lulu was even more crazy than him and often couldn't find anyone when he went home. He quickly made a three chapter agreement: in the future, each person can only go out to relax once a week!

Comment: Good medicine tastes bitter, not necessarily loved by the other party. Why don't you just give him some poison, and the effect will show immediately!

Report to 'superiors'

Dawei's wife is a powerful character. No matter how big or small things are at home, she always has the upper hand. She often gets angry and makes Dawei's fists itch, but she doesn't dare to touch his wife's finger. Last time, he couldn't hold back and slapped his wife back to her parents' house. Da Wei had a lot of effort in getting her back.

As his wife's arrogance grew more and more arrogant, Dawei thought you could sue me, but couldn't you?! When his wife was unreasonable again, he took the initiative to go to his mother-in-law's house to recite and nag. This move was really effective. After all, his wife was unreasonable and was afraid of making his parents unhappy, so he often voluntarily gave up. Now Dawei's talisman is: "If you keep making trouble, I'll tell your parents

Comment: When I think of playing house wine when I was young, I often complain to my parents when I feel annoyed while playing, and it often works very well. Just remember one thing, don't catch up with the 'protect the calf'.

Love camping

Feier's husband has no choice but to be a playboy! The working environment of his husband determines that he is surrounded by young and beautiful girls, trapped in the colorful scenery, often thinking that he is Jia Baoyu, and rumors, whether true or false, make Fei'er headache.

There's no way, besides strengthening political and ideological work, we also need to come up with some other strategies. Feier's usual method is surprise attack. Cold and restless, I ran to my husband's office and said I was tired from shopping for a while; Or when my husband calls and says he wants to work overtime tonight, I can bring a love lunch box to comfort him. At this point, you can make a public appearance and announce that your husband has become a "celebrity", while also giving him a wake-up call.

Comment: Such a sudden attack is really unbearable, and it is estimated that Feier's husband will also be able to withstand it. But don't overdo it, after all, work and life need to be separated!

Accept with cold treatment

Since their marriage, the Yongchuan couple have been constantly arguing, and their neighbors have become accustomed to their regular pattern of arguing every three to five times, and even those who advise them have not come. There have been many arguments, and Yongchuan is a bit tired of this state. When my wife finds fault again, he will adopt a policy of no resistance, and I will remain steadfast in the face of wind and rain.

The wife's killing tactics were not answered, so there was no follow-up. The cold war often lasts for two or three days, and the wife is ultimately a woman who is not accustomed to this gloomy atmosphere, and often ends up voluntarily surrendering. Comment: This is a dangerous action, do not imitate it unless you are a master. You should know that cold violence is the most damaging thing to a couple's relationship, and when it's cold, it really freezes up!