I am older than Chen Tao. Our parents are old friends. They have always been siblings. He called me Shen Huan, and I called him Xiao Dong. At that time, there was no more involvement between us. Until the summer before last, we met in Yantai because of our parents.
At that time, I was just lovelorn, and his career was booming. At the moment of meeting, I suddenly found that there was a big man standing in front of me. He was tall and handsome, with a very clear smile on his face. At that moment, I was fascinated by his impeccable smile. At that time, I suddenly thought that something must happen between us. Maybe the person I like is right in front of me.
Later, we went to sing together, watched movies together, often met and contacted, and then we fell in love. After the beginning of this relationship, my sky seems to be always clear and blue, and occasionally a little rain is also fleeting. He often comes to see me. When he leaves work at weekends or in the evening, he will suddenly appear in front of me and take me to play or go home.
Occasionally, he would work overtime even if he was busy on weekends. At that time, we would contact each other by telephone. During that time, my mobile phone fee rose sharply. At that time, I was very happy. So we fell in love for a year and a half, and then I successfully became his bride. He said that he would love me all his life.
I never doubted his love for me, but sometimes marriage is not just a matter of two people. After marriage, his parents often came to our house and got along very well at first. Later, they thought I was not virtuous and always let Chen Tao do something. If it was something I couldn't do, they would blame me for my clumsiness.
I told Chen Tao these words. He told me to forgive the old man as much as possible, but he didn't understand my sufferings. Sometimes I went back to my mother's house and told them to my parents. My father immediately found Chen Tao, and then criticized him. He also wanted to find my father-in-law. I tried to persuade him to stop. Chen Tao didn't say anything. In short, after several unhappy times with his parents-in-law, Chen Tao also began to return late. I know that he might also feel bad.
Once when Chen Tao came back drunk, he went straight to the bed without saying a word, and fell asleep without taking off his clothes. After finishing my work, I helped him undress and took off his pants, which surprised me because I found that he was wearing a woman's lace underwear. I knew that underwear didn't belong to me, so I cried bitterly.
After he woke up the next day, I prepared new underwear for him, and he was surprised that he was wrong. He said that he had done something wrong when he was drunk. But the second time, I caught him kissing goodbye with a woman at the door of my house. This time, I was completely angry and went back to my mother's house. I didn't want to go back.
When I lived in my mother's house, I liked to surf the Internet when I was idle at night. I talked about a sweet man named Jiaguo. He said that married men are just like that. Don't expect him to give you too much enthusiasm. I asked him, what about you? He said that he was not a good man, but he liked me.
Later, Chen Tao took me home. I have been chatting with men online. I met him two months later. He gave me the warmth and care I haven't seen for a long time. In front of him, I found myself a real woman. He is very considerate about everything. He bought me a lot of valuable bags and accessories, but seldom received my gifts. Only later on his birthday did I insist on giving it to him. He asked for 30000 yuan and said to deposit it in an account as the cost of our marriage in the future. I accepted. I love her.
The matter between Chen Tao and his mistress was discovered by the woman's husband. The man forgave his wife. Chen Tao was driven out of the house naked. He wants to return, but I no longer expect to live in harmony with him, and I am ready to divorce.
We had a big fight. He picked up my bags, cosmetics and other things and dumped them on the ground. And the bag was torn by him. He said that you would never sell luxury goods before. Now that there are so many, it must be from some man. I was so angry that I took my bag to repair it, but was told it was fake. At that time, I was blinded. I called Jiaguo, but it turned into an empty number. I was in a panic. I found that the 30000 yuan had been ruined. I couldn't help feeling sad.
My husband and I both had extramarital affairs and were finally abandoned by our lovers. It seems that we are really in the same boat, but can we still rely on each other? It is really difficult for two people who have smuggled their feelings to start again. Love is gone, and the good feeling for each other is gone, so we have to hope to get out of the marriage as soon as possible and find the right partner. However, I know that everything is not as simple as I thought
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)