"Beating is love, scolding is love", which is often used to describe the feelings between husband and wife. Couples have lived together for a long time, and it is unavoidable to make noise. If both parties do not pay attention to the proper speaking during the noise, it is likely to hurt the couple's feelings for many years.
"Look at Li Qin's husband, who earns thousands of yuan a month. Look at you, how much do you earn after working hard for a month? The neighbor asked you to pick up a child with a car and give it 100 yuan. It's a good job, but you don't do it." Yingqiu is complaining about her husband in the room.
Because the child has to pay the tuition again, there is no extra money at home to buy books and delicious food for the child except for a few pocket money. Yingqiu looks in the eyes and hurts in the heart. She has to vent all her anger on her husband, but she didn't think that she hurt his heart.
"Having followed you for so many years, you are not willing to eat or wear. Now that the children are so old, you are still not willing to give up anything. There is a chance to make money, but you don't earn it." The more you think, the more angry Yingqiu keeps venting her dissatisfaction with her husband.
"If other people's husbands can make money, why do you follow me when you find someone else?" shouted the husband sitting at the side.
"If I hadn't divorced you for the sake of my child, I would have followed you until now," Yingqiu said with grievance while wiping her tears.
"Mom and Dad, stop quarreling. I have to review my lessons." The child who was doing homework in the room interrupted the quarrel between husband and wife.
Maybe they are tired and numb. After 40 minutes of fighting between husband and wife, both of them went to bed peacefully.
In life, such cases of husband and wife quarrels are common. Some of them fight with each other, some use "weapons of violence", and some choose to leave home, which makes a harmonious and peaceful home full of the smell of "gunpowder" on the battlefield.
The quarrel between husband and wife is nothing more than money, children, two families, and some trivial things in life. Two people quarrel without reason. During the quarrel, some women often bring up the past, which will hurt the husband's heart, and also make the relationship between husband and wife split.
It is normal for couples to make noise, but don't expand the problem of noise indefinitely. Couples are birds in the same forest. When they are together, they should share weal and woe and solve problems together. As people often say, "peace is the most important thing at home". Therefore, don't let the noise affect the harmony between husband and wife.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)