Post Date December, 03 2023
Many marital conflicts eventually become incurable, and happy families fall apart. What is the reason for this?
The low immunity of couples
There is no deep relationship from the beginning, but elderly couples are so immune because time has smoothed their relationship. For paper marriage couples, the accumulated deep emotions do not serve as immunity, and the wisdom to handle conflicts becomes particularly important.
When there is a conflict between husband and wife, the attitudes of men and women towards this matter are completely different. Women like to delve deeper and entangle themselves, while men like to turn big things into small ones. Women may feel that men do not care about them, while men may say that women make a big deal out of a molehill. Actually, neither party is wrong, just because of their different thinking patterns.
So, if both parties cannot correctly understand and treat the differences between men, and cannot communicate well, then the couple's emotions lack immunity, and it is easy to find a cold.
Delaying for a long time makes "cold" an incurable disease
Our normal thinking is that catching a cold should not be delayed for a long time, as it can easily become a risk of tuberculosis. However, many people feel that it may be due to a cold and do not need to pay attention. They don't realize that even a minor illness like a cold can turn into a major illness.
For example, a small dispute between a couple is not a big deal and can be easily resolved. But it happens that someone is holding you, and you make me unhappy. I also have to make you unhappy to calm down and ignore the other person, and even use sexual punishment to show my power. As a result, the small cold between husband and wife turned into an incurable disease due to missing the best treatment opportunity.
A minor illness becomes a major illness doctor
In marital life, there are many couples who often argue over trivial matters. However, some couples may escalate this argument to a level of love or non love, or even a matter of character. At this time, killing pigs is like using a knife, just like a small cold that requires hospitalization to be treated, and the result will only be counterproductive.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
