Post Date December, 02 2023
Please remember, don't let sexual issues affect the love that belongs to you. In real society, no matter what kind of person, regardless of age, is in a relationship with a male or female, regardless of who they are, they will face sexual issues. Although each other may not have finalized their fate, sexual issues often arise before marriage. Let's start from the actual situation and explore the issue of sexual entanglement in love. Whether male or female, sexual contact is the most intense and fervent result of the sublimation of mutual admiration. Therefore, when you are about to have sexual relations with a lover, you should first consider the following six questions:
Is this person your favorite type? If not, you may end up in the wrong relationship. Please remember: If the other person is not the type of person you like, and the more beautiful and sexy you have with him or her, the more difficult it is to evolve into a healthy love relationship, which is likely to lead to improper sexual relationships in the future and make it difficult to enter the door of marriage.
Is this what you really want to do? Are you motivated by real needs or the pressure from the other person?
Can you accept the reality that this person only wants to have a "one night romance" with you and doesn't want to fall in love with you anymore?
If you must have sexual intercourse with the other person, have you taken contraceptive measures? With this assurance, you can relax without worrying about whether the other person is prepared. No matter what your purpose is, you should first have a clear attitude and take safety measures, and cannot have the mentality of fluke and irresponsibility.
Is the person who will have sex with you motivated by a possessive mentality? Avoid people who have sex with you and become entangled with you, because it's not out of love for you, it's for some purpose. This type of person is likely to cause you a lot of trouble in the future.
If the person you love doesn't give you a strong commitment before the relationship, can you still afford self-esteem or emotional risks? Remember: self-esteem and emotional risks are more vulnerable than any other risk. When you are not sure that your love relationship has reached its peak, it is best to think twice about whether it is necessary to have sex prematurely. Once a relationship breaks down, all that you have done will go to waste. How can you face this reality? Therefore, during love, it is absolutely not easy to have sexual relations with people without feelings.
Whether it's in love or not, most men tend not to respect women who sleep with them too soon. "If you can handle this kind of thing with great confidence, he won't easily attribute you to that frivolous woman. You must make him recognize it and make him deeply feel that your behavior is just accidental.". The same is true for men. Don't let a woman feel that your need for her is only sexual. The development of both parties' emotions during a relationship is unpredictable. If you want to maintain both parties' emotions through sexual relationships, it would be a big mistake! Because during love, sex and affection cannot be compared, and whether both parties can establish a stable relationship is the first priority, not sex. "Only when you have a genuine relationship with each other can your sexual relationship not be in too much trouble.".
So you should understand that if you want to win the love that belongs to you, you should not regard sex as the only means to deepen your feelings, and sex cannot win love. Is sex a manifestation of love or a responsibility? In fact, no one can possess the sexuality of others. If you only regard sex as a responsibility or obligation, it will be difficult to find a suitable partner among the crowds; If you encounter sexual "entanglement" during a relationship, don't assume that marriage is a legitimate sexual life, otherwise, your subconscious understanding of marriage will change. Please remember not to let sexual issues affect the love that belongs to you.
For the pursuit of love, getting divorced is not a problem, and aging is not a problem. Therefore, please do not easily give up your confidence and pursuit of love.
