Post Date December, 03 2023
Many people may think that a friend should have nothing to talk about and no secrets, but the fact is not that, and there are also proper rules for getting along with friends. The traffic lights for socializing with friends are beneficial for you to get along well with them.
1. It's best to talk less about money
It is natural for friends to help each other, but it is better to be cautious in terms of money, as people often change relationships or even cut off relationships due to money. If you lend money to a friend, be prepared with the mindset of 'not coming back'. When borrowing money from friends, even if it is a small amount of 1200 yuan, it is necessary to strictly adhere to the deadline and agreed date, and repay as soon as possible.
2. Don't be too utilitarian
There is no denying the existence of utilitarian factors in making friends, but utilitarianism is too heavy, and the relationship cannot last. This type of person will not reach out to help you when you are in difficulty or when you have lost your value.
3. Don't be impatient in arguments
It is normal for two people to have different thoughts. Even the best friends have differences in their ways of life. It is not uncommon to argue, but it is not advisable to be impatient when arguing with friends. Impatience is a hidden arrow that hurts emotions. It is possible to win a debate but lose a friend.
4. Not exposing privacy
Good friends may chat about topics that involve personal privacy, seeking help and comfort. This is a form of trust, but it is important to avoid exposing friends' privacy in public. This not only embarrasses friends, but also betrays their trust. Who dares to be your true friend in the future?
