Divorce - Men: Men are tired

The two-year separation and divorce war has finally come to an end. Runzi was relieved. He knew he was a poor man now. A man went out of the house in a divorce war. No! It is a negative asset exit. This is the first thing he knows. The staff of the Civil Affairs Bureau gave Runzi a thumbs-up when they stamped the divorce certificate. He knew what that meant, and he knew he should do it. Muzi married to Runzi and didn't enjoy any good life.

In the first few years of her marriage, Muzi couldn't work because she had to take care of the old mother who had been bedridden for Runzi. Muzi took care of her mother-in-law with a bunch of shit and a bag of urine. When she was tired, she complained to Runzi privately, but she never showed her face to her mother-in-law. Five years later, the old mother died, and Muzi cried like tears. She hugged her son and said, "Grandma is a good person. As long as she can move herself, she never troubles her mother. It's better to remember Grandma."

The three-year-old boy said, "I like Grandma. She can tell stories." He turned back and pointed at the man lying on the bed and said, "I want to ask Grandma to eat."

Muzi's tears kept flowing down and said, "Grandma is tired, let her sleep."

Runzi has been thinking about this scene. He knows that Muzi has not been looking for a job for five years. He just wants to let himself develop at ease and not worry about his family. But he doesn't know why Muzi doesn't want to work anymore after the end of May. One year after his mother died, his son entered kindergarten. Muzi eats and watches TV every day except sleeping at home alone. She lives happily, her son is good, her husband is capable, and her career is getting better and better.

Muzi likes to watch TV programs about family disputes and marriage disputes broadcast by local TV stations when he is idle and bored at home. After she saw those programs, she didn't think that the real people, the real things, the families and the people in marriage interviewed on TV were not happy. She never thought these things would happen to her.

Runzi never cares about Muzi. He needs to work hard to finish the project he should finish. He can never be quiet every day. He has to face messy customers every day, and he has to entertain company leaders from all directions. He has less and less time to go home, and more and more money to pay home every month, while he is increasingly unable to find himself.

A few years ago, Runzi found that Muzi always watched some family TV programs explaining the social truth in the name of the law. After watching an episode, he said to Muzi, "Don't watch these programs, they will poison you. If you get used to them, you will feel that there are no good people in society."

Muzi said, "The men who are looking for the mistress on TV are really hateful. I just want to see their bad ending."

Runzi didn't say anything. As long as he could see his son growing up day by day, he would be happy. Being able to spend an hour with his son was his best pastime and relaxation exercise. Think: "Regardless of her, let Muzi be happy“

Later, Muzi began to repeatedly ask Runzi whether he secretly did something unseemly outside like those on TV. Runzi just said lightly, "Don't talk nonsense. Just like I am now, let alone nobody cares. Even if I think so, people should look up to me." Runzi looked at Muzi's increasingly suspicious eyes, "You should go out to find a job, not to make money, just to go out to relax."

"I won't go." Muzi refused Runzi's request on the spot.

Later, there were several such confrontations, but one was more serious than the other. Muzi said: "I know that you want to drive me out of the house and make me tired outside, so you can find a younger and better one. Over the years, I have to take care of the old and the young by myself, and I have to take care of you, who are half of the big and not small. I have to cook, wash clothes and clean every day. I am tired, and you are going to let me go out to work. You just want to kill me, I am tired, you are happy, you can find a smaller one. Look Isn't that all on TV? "

Runzi doesn't understand why the current Muzi has become like this. In order to avoid conflict, he came home later and later, because after he came home, everything he said was not congenial, and there would be a quarrel over any small matter. He is not willing to fight in front of children. He tries to be a ninja. He knows the impact of parents' quarrels on children. When he was a child, he saw more quarrels between his parents and the unhappiness of his elders. The father died in a hurry in the quarrel of his mother for half of her life, and the mother always regretted that she should not quarrel with her father in this life.

"You are in bad health. I don't want to quarrel with you. I'm out." Runzi always uses this method to avoid quarreling with Muzi. "As for whether you can find a job or not, it's up to you!"

Muzi continued to sleep during the day, watch TV and play mahjong and poker at night. Runzi doesn't understand why Muzi, who is crying about his bad health every day, is so excited once it's time to play poker and never complains about his bad health. One night when Runzi could not bear it, he closed the bedroom door. When Muzi came back, he had to sleep in his study. From then on, the separation of the two began. Muzi decided that Runzi was separated from him because of someone outside.

She felt that she really had the same fate as those elderly women on TV because she didn't see people clearly and married such a heartless husband.

After living in this way for a year, Muzi proposed a divorce. Muzi said bitterly, "I can support myself. I don't want any of your broken money. I will give it all to you." Runzi didn't agree. Runzi understood that Muzi was just angry, and she would not really give her money. He just hopes that Muzi can seriously think about his current life. What kind of influence this kind of life will bring to children.

Every time he urged his son to do his homework, his son would mumble: "Why can Mom play poker? I will do my homework." In fact, Runzi knew that Muzi would not change, because she believed it was Runzi's fault. Runzi suggested sending children to boarding schools in order to develop a good life and study habit for children. Muzi agreed. Runzi knew why Muzi agreed, because no one would bother her to play poker, and no one would accuse her of irresponsible for her children. However, she forgot that the money for sending her children to school was not a small amount, and she never thought that Runzi's money was so difficult.

As an intermediate employee in the company, Runzi should constantly flatter customers, accompany customers to eat, drink and have fun, and rely on strict management to offend his best colleagues and friends. Runzi is tired of this kind of life, and he has already been exhausted. Muzi has never felt it, and is not willing to feel it.

No matter how bitter his mind is, Runzi doesn't want Muzi to worry about himself. He just wants Muzi to live a good life. He doesn't have to face mahjong and poker every day. Runzi once took her out to some business banquets. However, after each banquet, Muzi's talk will become a private chat between colleagues and friends. Runzi began to understand that Muzi was out of touch with her life and society, because she was still obsessed with the broken TV programs of family disputes.

Runzi has been trying to find some doctors to help Muzi recuperate. He believes that Muzi's body is caused by his irregular life. Fortunately, after a year of hard work, Muzi's body is getting better day by day. Runzi is also used to Muzi talking about divorce every day.

That day, the doctor told Runzi that Muzi's body was completely well and there was no problem. In the future, he should pay more attention to exercise, stay up late and be less angry. When he came out of the hospital, Runzi said to Muzi, "Let's go through the formalities. Please put forward the conditions yourself."

Runzi would rather be a poor man, and he no longer wants to hear the woman who sleeps on the merit book of his history nagging at him. He thanked the woman for helping him support the elderly and take care of his family. But he also hated this woman becoming a parasite and parasitic on himself for so many years. No matter what method he used, he could not make this woman self-reliant. Muzi's only hobby is the instant joy of seeing Runzi give him his salary. At other times, Muzi is enjoying the story of Runzi and Xiaosan in her imagination.

Even after getting the divorce certificate, Muzi still wanted to extract the last bit of blood from Runzi. Runzi agreed to Muzi's request to pay another 20000 yuan after getting all the property. Runzi was just thinking, this is the last time, let her go.

The divorce war that lasted for two years finally settled down, and Runzi felt relieved. But he knew that the war for protecting children had begun, and he only expected Muzi to be more rational, and the later he told his children the news of divorce, the better. I hope the child can forgive himself. Because this society has branded all divorced men as junior. He only hopes that children will know the truth when they grow up. I hope this woman who overdraw her future will live a good and happy life.