The success or failure of a marriage is not achieved by a small thing, but by a seemingly insignificant small thing in the marriage life, and destroyed by the cumulative damage. So what can destroy the marriage that was hard combined? Let's take a look at the fuse that destroys a happy marriage.
1. Scold each other's parents
No matter what misunderstandings and contradictions between you can't be solved, you can't scold each other's parents. This kind of injury is much worse than scolding him. We should pay special attention to this point in marriage. Many of the collapse of marriage is completely destroyed on this. This is something that any couple should strictly abide by. This kind of injury is more serious than you think.
2. Private money
Since the two parties are married, their property should be as open and transparent as possible. If the other party works hard to manage the expenses and income of the family, but you have private money, the other party will think that you have a second heart for the marriage, and your heart is no longer in the marriage. Unless you can really keep your private money from being discovered by the other party, you can imagine the consequences. But most of your private money starts with the intention of not being discovered by the other party for a lifetime.
Loyalty to each other is the foundation to keep the marriage going. If one party betrays, the marriage is not far from collapse. Even if it does not collapse, it is still a marriage of flesh and blood. With the gradual opening of the concept of social sex, the temptation of marriage is much greater than before. Most of the domestic marriage collapses are prostrated on this, which is also one of the most common reasons for divorce in China.
4. Disdain the other party
Only two people in a marriage can maintain their equal status for a long time. If one party disdains the other, there will be disharmonious factors in the marriage. There won't be any big cracks in a short time. But over time, this contradiction will break out sooner or later. The day when it breaks out is the day when the marriage collapses.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)