Post Date December, 03 2023
The food with a lot of preservatives can't stand the torture of time, and finally it can't escape the end of deterioration. Love is also like food. Although we have been carefully adding preservatives into it, it still changes its taste when we are not careful. A period of sweet love, with the passage of time, the feelings of two people are like a U-shaped line, from the top to the bottom. If you save it in time, you can smoothly lift the love up. If you don't hold it, it may fall into the abyss. To save this love that has become more and more insipid, you must first determine whether your boyfriend has changed his heart. What are the criteria for judging his change of heart?
Standard 1: Attitude becomes indifferent.
This is true of all people. They can't cover up if they want to. People will always show their indifference to the objects they don't care about. You will find that recently he no longer asks you what you are doing from time to time as he used to, nor does he take the initiative to ask you to take you home and date you, and even when you take the initiative to find him, he just has something to do and refuses you, etc. In short, when you need him, he is not there, and he will not take the initiative to find you. If you do not make up in time, suddenly one day, you will find that he disappeared!
Standard 2: EQ suddenly drops.
It doesn't mean that the boyfriend's EQ is really low, or even that his EQ is high, because he begins to understand how to act silly with you! For example, when you were unhappy in the past, you deliberately hid your emotions from him to find out, but he could easily find out what was wrong with you, and then comfort you and give you a warm hug. But now, the obvious sadness on your face can't attract his attention. He pretends not to see, and you express doubt, but he still looks innocent. If you don't save your boyfriend's heart in time, he may become more and more popular on the road of "acting", and then "become famous" and abandon you.
Standard 3: Time becomes urgent.
His life has always been quite regular, but recently he has suddenly become busy. You think he needs to work overtime today for entertainment tomorrow, and go on a business trip to study the day after tomorrow. You no longer have time to enjoy the world of two people, and even those special days have been torn off by him along with the calendar page by page. No matter whether he is really busy or not, he no longer revolves around you! His time has become urgent. Sometimes he has no time to call you. Do you think you will not become strangers if you go on like this?
Standard 4: Sleep becomes interest.
Once you complained about him, don't be busy working without rest, and pay attention to his health when he is young. But now you don't understand why he is always sleeping when he has too little rest time? When you are still busy, he is doing his own business. When you are busy and want to talk to him, he tells you how much he wants to sleep. For a boyfriend who has changed his mind, sleeping has become his interest. He should sleep whenever he has time, instead of using his rest time to enjoy love time with you as before.
Standard 5: words become silent.
Most men are rectum, and don't know how to hide it. When his heart no longer belongs to you, you will find that you have become his surplus products unconsciously. In the past, when you were nagging him, he would happily respond to you, and even laugh and say that you are his nagging little old woman. But now you babble a lot, and he will turn a deaf ear to the wind, keep silent without saying a word, and even leave impatiently sometimes. If you encounter this phenomenon of silence, your boyfriend may have changed his mind. Take the time to hold his hand and don't regret it afterwards!
Standard 6: narrow-minded.
Love is great because it can tolerate your mistakes. But if love disappears and your boyfriend changes his mind, all tolerance will disappear and his mind will become narrow. First of all, he will become selfish. He works hard to do a lot of things, not for you, but to satisfy his own selfish interests, and even he will ignore your rights for his own interests. Secondly, he will become extremely angry. Even for a small mistake, he will not spoil you as he used to, but will criticize you angrily. Because for a boyfriend who has changed his heart, nothing can stop him from being angry with you.
Love is like food, and antisepsis will also deteriorate, but love is not food. As long as the preservation work is done well, the boyfriend will not change his heart, and you and he can still flow through the long run.
