Post Date December, 03 2023
My wife has been getting along with others for more than four years. Not long ago, I found out that she had a room with her online friends. She had a room with four online friends, one of whom has maintained a relationship for more than half a year. I found out these people for more than half a year by myself and my wife herself. After I first found out that she opened a house with her online friend, I asked for 15000 yuan from the man who had been there for more than four years, and she was also present at that time.
The first time she was found, she said that there were no other men, and she also said that she would repent of her past mistakes and would no longer communicate with anyone. However, afterwards, I found out that my wife was dating the man for more than half a year. After three days, I asked her if she had any more. She confessed that she had been dating this man for more than four years.
I don't want to divorce. I want to know if my wife can break up with them and really change? Please help me analyze it when you are not busy. Thank you!
In addition, my wife has a good reputation among relatives and friends, and she is excellent in other aspects. What should I do?
reply:
Personally, once a man or woman has committed disloyalty to his marriage, he or she can only listen to his or her apology and repentance, without taking it too seriously. Otherwise, it would be very sad for him or her to repeat the same trick in the future.
In fact, there are many reasons for betrayal. Some people are seeking for fresh stimulation, some people are unable to endure loneliness, some people are temporarily misguided, some people are out of revenge, and some people are unable to resist temptation. As for your wife, why does she often cheat with male netizens? You need to take a good look at your marriage and find the real reason. Is it because you are not good enough for your wife and don't care enough for her? Or do you make mistakes first and make her feel sad, so you choose to betray you. To do this, you should have a clear idea.
Most of the time, people are two-sided animals. Don't just look at her in front of people. You should go deep into the wife's heart and really enter her inner world to explore, find out the other side she hides, and find out what kind of woman she is. Sometimes people are good at camouflage, which is the complexity of human nature.
For you, if you don't want to divorce, you can only be tolerant when you choose to endure humiliation. Try to communicate with your wife more, understand her true mind more, and then try to meet her reasonable needs. If she still has at least a conscience, you can give her a chance at last. If she just doesn't repent and has no bottom line of degeneration and indulgence, then you can't always be tolerant, Otherwise, your green hat will never be taken off.
