Men yearn for a heterosexual confidant who is pleasing to the eye and can go to bed without taking on family responsibilities, but the probability of such good deeds is almost zero.
So men and women who are good at creating but also need to find a theoretical basis have created harmonious colors when they are unable to achieve their true beauty confidants, which can also be said to be disorderly color confidants. Describing male female friends as pink confidants; Women are also unwilling to fall behind and refer to their male friends as blue confidants. It's true that it's not easy to get married among the opposite sex, just among the same sex. Couples who are strictly homosexual and cannot get married are referred to as dark faced confidants. What color confidants are yellow (from the same unit), green (from virtual networks), and so on, many and many, overturning the admonitory maxim in Zeng Guangxian's article that "knowing everyone in the world, how many confidants there are".
The so-called pink confidant is the woman who has been in love with you in the long river of life and will always be remembered, and occasionally wants to have sex with her. Pink confidants are in love, confiding is joy, and they are unforgettable memories of that time period and background. Meiqiming believes that female confidants have true feelings but no sex, and even if they go to bed, it is not for sex, it is due to true feelings and a manifestation of love.
The person who creates a pink confidant denies the claim that a pink confidant is a close friend, and is different from a red confidant (because it is almost impossible to achieve it). This man seeks physical and psychological comfort through her, perhaps a more warm and female close friend.
A pink confidant will one day have their own lover, lover, or red confidant, so if one party breaks free, the other party will definitely feel that something is suddenly missing. Perhaps this is considered a pink confidant, a kind of transition. When this transitional thing becomes a habit, it takes time to suddenly change a habit.
On the other hand, it is the so-called blue confidant. Nowadays, women tend to have a type of love called confidant's love, also known as the third type of emotion. It is said that beneath the lover, above the friend, there is no physical relationship, but it is better than emotions that only have physical relationships. A woman's blue confidant must have an ambiguous color. It is said to be pure, but in fact, it is definitely not pure to the point where there is no physical contact. It's possible that you haven't had sexual intercourse for the time being, but it definitely won't be without touching your fingers. Because of the initial physical contact, ambiguous emotions can arise between two people, and going to bed is also a matter of time.
In fact, almost every woman, like every man, probably always has a complex of wanting to have a blue confidant. This blue face is not a husband, not a lover, but the one who lives in her spiritual realm and can provide physical comfort. He may not be handsome, but he must be mature, reliable, and understanding. He is handsome, handsome, mature, reliable, and understanding, that's even better! The spatial distance between them will not be too close. If they are too close, they will know the root and the bottom, but they will not become confidants. It's best for them to meet on a business trip or meet in an accident, such as dialing the wrong number, sending the wrong email, or making a random click online. She has her city and her home, he has his city and his home, but this does not hinder their understanding. Even people who have never met before must have been digging their hearts and lungs to tell each other's stories on the phone or computer.
A blue confidant is a man who truly understands women's psychology and emotions. He does not always worry about every happiness, anger, or sadness of a woman, but will feel heartache for every drop of her tears when he meets her, and will be pleased with every smile she smiles. He is the person who first remembers a woman when she is hurt or wronged. A woman always has many things she cannot tell the man around her or her closest girlfriend, so she is looking for a man who can care for her and love her without causing her to suffer and want to love or hate. At this point, women will hide their blue confidant and say that they are brothers and sisters. It's a relationship where the other party doesn't treat themselves as women, and they don't treat them as men. In fact, the more they repeatedly reiterate this, the more worried they are about taking that step.
So, no matter what color you wear, once you are a confidant of the opposite sex, it is a very dangerous relationship. Taking a slight step forward can lead to a slip, infidelity, and irreparable harm.
To be more realistic, the only purpose for a man to be good to a woman is not to gain her heart, but to gain her body, that's all. And the purpose of women being good to men is nothing more than this, but the desire to get their bodies is not as genuine as the desire to get their hearts. Women care more about their hearts. Obtaining a man's heart makes women proud and proud than their body, while men care about their bodies. Obtaining more women's bodies is more worth showing off than obtaining more women's hearts. Obtaining too many hearts only brings a burden to men.
Whether it's a man or a woman, if you want to hold onto the heart of Yan Yan's confidant for a lifetime but can't do it forever, you need to keep your position in his heart unchanged. Only by putting in effort can you receive rewards, and your care will naturally receive their care. If you don't have meticulous care, how can you possibly have the other party willing to be your lifelong confidant? To be cared for and loved by others meticulously, only you can first tell them the secrets and grievances in your heart. People are all mutual, and true love is rewarded with effort.
We all have friends to some extent, but we always crave to have a heterosexual friend who is always close to us or live in our hearts. This is the dependence on our confidant. When you start to rely on someone, naturally they have a charm that makes you sincerely convinced, and physical contact is almost inevitable, and they will definitely fall into it. It is almost impossible for you to truly be the closest man or woman in your life for nothing. Even if possible, it will only be a transition. A confidant can speak their heart, but they cannot warm each other. The only way for confidants to warm themselves is through the warmth of their hearts, and they cannot become body warmers. Once they become body warmers, confidants will face two consequences: either losing or upgrading to become lovers.