It is well known that no matter what kind of injury rubber workers cut on trees, they can heal naturally in the shortest time. The relationship between husband and wife should be the same, no matter what happens. They should have a natural immunity. Even if there is a rift in their feelings, they will not be infected by the wound, and finally the whole body will rot.
In marriage, the more noisy the relationship should be, the better it is. As long as a set of contradictory immune system is established between the husband and wife. Now let's introduce our marriage experience. I hope it can help you.
Don't put conflicts overnight
When quarreling, we must have a principle, that is, the conflict has occurred and must be resolved before going to bed, otherwise it will affect the quality of sleep and directly affect the mood and work of the next day, especially in case of bad mood the next day, carelessly signing the wrong contract, or accidentally crossing the street and running the red light, which can only be poisoned by the chain reaction of the couple's conflict. Therefore, we must not put off doing things today and finishing them today until tomorrow, otherwise this vicious circle will spread and affect normal life.
Talk about the matter as it is, and don't exaggerate the problem in principle
It was like a heated debate contest. My husband used to like playing games, but I couldn't stand his bad habit. There are often conflicts about this. In fact, this is not because the husband doesn't pay attention to the family and doesn't love you, but because his personal life habits have created his present. Therefore, when a couple quarrels, don't exaggerate things, which will not only reduce their worries, but also give them less pressure. Never go online, otherwise, it will not only make the other party feel aggrieved, but also will not help to solve the problem.
Never hit a snake and hit seven inches
When there is a conflict between husband and wife, because they know each other well enough, they will attack the most painful place in each other's heart with the most vicious and unpleasant words. Therefore, the more contradictions between husband and wife, the more they need to know how to control rather than let their emotions freely vent, which will test a person's wisdom and strength.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)