Post Date December, 03 2023
Breaking up has become your soul killer
Keep good memories: If possible, although you two have already broken up, try to remember the happy times you had with him to reduce your hatred towards him or him towards you.
1. Always leave what you want: If unfortunately, your boyfriend says goodbye to you, don't disregard face to keep him. Because if he really changes his mind or if everyone has a different personality, getting along again will only end up unhappy. So, leaving a good impression on the other party would be even better.
2. Decisive, firm, and honest: To break up, one must be firm. As for honesty, it is necessary to respect the other party. Secondly, no matter what reason you break up, it is always wrapped in paper and will be exposed by him sooner or later, which will make the situation even more awkward. Remember one thing: 'smoothness' is acceptable, it can reduce the degree of harm to the other party, but it is not allowed to lie!
3. Cannot have one foot on two boats: Don't let yourself fall into a situation where one foot on two boats and carry the reputation of a third party!
4. Couples becoming friends: Don't believe too much that after a breakup, a couple can become friends again, because not everyone can forget the days when there was a delay, so don't force a couple who has already broken up to become friends again.
5. Stay calm: Breaking up can have a certain impact on you or him, so it's best to find a place to think slowly and give him or herself more time to accept this reality.
6. Public places can be awkward: the word 'breakup' may make you or him feel emotionally out of control, uneasy, and uncomfortable, thereby increasing the chances of both parties having a big argument. Therefore, it is recommended that you avoid discussing breakups in public places as much as possible to avoid embarrassment.
7. Difficult to speak up: If you feel it's too difficult to say 'break up' to him in person, try using the power of words to make him understand this fact before calling him to clarify everything. I believe this not only reduces embarrassment, but also provides ample time for the other party to think about the beginning and end of the matter.
