Post Date December, 03 2023
Marriage is definitely a subject of learning, and here, whether it's talent, talent, or wealth, there are situations where everything is completely different. This knowledge has nothing to do with your educational background, but is inextricably related to whether you are working hard or not. "The so-called family has a difficult lesson to read, often in the eyes of outsiders is a happy couple, but you do not know when they close the door of the war after the smoke scene.". Only the parties in the besieged city knew what was wrong with their original romantic marriage.
Marriage is a war between two people, a battle between the intelligence and personality of both spouses. Every person living in a besieged city will have some kind of problem or other, and will never leave their roots. There are no more than the following ten situations. Welcome to take your seat according to the number. If your marital problems are not the following, please also take precautions.
1： Busy days darken love. Note that here is "love" rather than "love". Love only manifests itself so prominently when it comes to falling in love with each other, and once in marriage, "love" is even more important. Don't ignore the concern for each other because of your busy day. Caring and caring for each other and giving love to the other half anytime and anywhere is the fundamental to a happy and lasting life for a couple.
2： The promises made before marriage were dashed. People in a city can find as many motives and reasons for marriage as there are windows in it. No matter how different the reasons for each person to obtain that "license" may be, one thing can be the same: expectations for the future, expectations for the person who will live with them. Life is not always what people want. Everyone wants to be rich, live in a villa, and drive a Mercedes, but the reality is often cruel. "We must be together because of love, and we cannot be disappointed or distressed because the beautiful vision before marriage has not been realized.". Be sure to believe that tomorrow will be better than today!
3： A little makes a lot of damage. Where there are people, there will be conflicts. Couples face each other day and night, and of course, there will be fewer bumps and bumps. It is inevitable to quarrel, and it is not normal to not argue. However, there is a difference between fighting and hurting each other. If both parties only express different opinions with angry expressions, it is a quarrel; If we also insult the other person's personality and trample on their self-esteem, it would be harmful.
4： Suspicion makes the heart rate haggard. Having been married for a long time, and entering middle age, the husband has also reached the stage of "a flower" for men. So, will this "flower" "quietly open outside the home? Anyway, first of all, you have to be on guard. For example, checking his wallet, looking at his phone, flipping over his collar to smell the smell, and even not forgetting to assess his performance in bed... Can you find any clues? That's another way to say, anyway, only in this way can the stone in his heart not hang in the air as usual. This kind of thinking is very bad, which makes me feel like a thief and makes the other person feel depressed.
5： Plain life makes marriage boring. Marriage will always fall into insipidity, and marriages in insipidity are the most prone to problems, which will test each other's IQ. It is the wisdom of a wise man to bring romance or novelty to a long marriage. Not only will it surprise the other person, but it will also bring a second spring to a dull marriage.
6： Love crystallizes into a fetter of marriage. The crystallization of love is children. Some people will say how can children become a fetter in marriage? "When the child is born, you will be absolutely surprised.". But the growth of children is a difficult project. There will be problems with raising children. When a mother's wife neglects her husband because she is busy taking care of the baby, after a period of time, you cannot forget that the other half around you also needs your love. This kind of love is different from the love for the child, it will be simpler and more tolerant. When it comes to raising children, women are bound to work harder than men. I hope men can be more considerate of their beloved wives.
7： The hidden dangers of "flash marriage" are highlighted. Flash marriage has become a common phenomenon, and one must quickly run to the Civil Affairs Bureau after falling in love at first sight, obtain a "driver's license", but go straight on the road without breaking in. On the way, problems arise because of the disharmony between their personalities or hobbies, lifestyles, and other issues, resulting in this marriage causing two people to suffer.
8： The distance between husband and wife is constantly widening. There is a inherent gap between men and women, such as when women like Romantic, men like Normandy; Women like fashion, while men like models who wear fashion. For couples, differences in life interests, value orientations, hobbies, and other aspects can not only make their world more colorful, but also precisely conform to the "complementarity" rule.
9： Couple life is less romantic and less fun. The love between husband and wife is ultimately going to deteriorate, evolving from a beautiful and romantic love to a kinship of flesh and blood. This is because marriage is actually longer than love. Therefore, under this tangible marriage, the emotional life is in a "tired" state, there is no longer "innovation", and has become thick and hard lines in the oil, salt, firewood, and rice.
10： Sexual life is not harmonious. Sex is the lubricant in marriage, and a harmonious married life can make both people rosy and energetic. Conversely, marriage can have major problems. Often, sex between a husband and wife becomes a duty for two people, and each time it is as tedious as a routine. The lubricant has lost its effect, and the chariot of marriage is bound to have some kind of problem. This kind of hidden danger is very important
