My husband and I have gone through a lot of ups and downs in our marriage. After 20 years of marriage, all changes have come from our joint efforts. Before we got married, we had no house or car. After marriage, we encouraged each other. The two people worked hard to improve their lives. Now, the rich life is also in direct proportion to our efforts. There are a couple of children who live a very comfortable life.
My husband keeps running in various cities for the development of his career. We are couples in need. I know my husband's behavior very well. So when he travels, I don't ask too much. I just want to leave some space for him. If he is too tight, he will have a reaction. I am very relieved about him. But a picture messed up my life
That day, when my husband came back from a business trip in the evening, I was preparing dinner for him and gave him a warm welcome. Suddenly, a multimedia message from a strange number sent by my mobile phone made me petrified. In the picture, a woman was asleep in the arms of a man. Looking closely, it was my husband. I felt that the blood was flowing rapidly all over my body, my heart was beating constantly, and there was a line along the picture: sleeping with the man who loved me, I'm very happy. This photo was taken by myself at first sight, and it happened to be sent by my husband on the day he came back. Is this another declaration of war against me? Looking at my carefully prepared dinner, I cried. After living for 20 years, he finally made his head, but he carried me to sleep with other women, his heart was cold, I don't know what to do? Divorce? I don't think I can do it. The children are still in school. Divorce will definitely affect their school. But can I tolerate him raising women outside?
Reply from the consultant:
In the face of tasteless men and marriage, women are often forced to maintain their marriage for the sake of children. This may be the reality of helplessness. There are many such marriages in reality. How to face such a marriage really makes people feel helpless. Legally speaking, he is the father of two children, that is to say, he has the obligation of training and law for the children; Emotionally, he may ignore his children and marriage, which can only be said from the perspective of human relations. Therefore, whether divorced or not, he is responsible for his children. Faced with men who have no good feelings and no responsibilities, it may be unrealistic for women to blindly find "debts" that have lost their youth and emotions. Marriage without emotion can only be forced, which not only delays one's youth, but also leaves a bad living environment for children. In fact, it has a greater impact on children.
Divorce is a state of marriage. There are also many children in single-parent families, and child education is a big problem. In fact, many children who grow up in such families are also excellent. The experience of childhood is wealth for children, and misfortune is also another kind of wealth. We just need to care about the psychological problems of children, especially girls, and don't let children hate or even fear the opposite sex, which will affect her marriage. If you have a chance to chat with your husband again. In the face of a pair of children, any man should have a sense of happiness, which can replace the physical sexual happiness. If this man does his own thing regardless of his children, it may be a good ending to break up.