For many women, the married life seems to be biased from the time of love. The husband's busy work can't take into account his wife's feelings, and various social engagements can't be accompanied at all times. Some women can handle these situations well, but some women can't bear it, and eventually lead to the breakdown of marriage.
You know, smart women can always do a good job of helping men. Let them work outside at ease and feel the warmth of home after returning home. So, how can we do a good job of helping our husbands? This requires us to avoid the following four major minefields.
1. Prohibit communication
Women always think that men love themselves when they surround themselves all the time. Some women even put an end to their husbands going out to socialize. Even her husband's brothers and friends were also excluded. You should know that men also need their own social circle. Long-term estrangement from friends will only make your husband more tired of you. So, when your man goes out for entertainment, don't urge him to go home on time. Even if he is obedient to you, give him enough face at this time.
2. Extravagant spending
As the saying goes, there is a money rake outside and a money box at home. Men strive to earn money outside, and women should also be good finance ministers. The flowers that should be spent should not be scattered. Life is about living, not spending more than anyone else.
3. Pry into privacy
Lack of security seems to be unique to women. Some suspicious women are even more likely to look at their pockets and mobile phones when their husband comes back from a trip, for fear that he will go out and flirt with others. Although men don't say it on the surface, they hate women monitoring themselves like prisoners. In life, we need to trust each other enough to make our feelings more warm and your relationship inseparable. But simply relying on surveillance behavior, not only can not prevent the accident from happening, but is rejected by others.
4. To and fro
It is said that women are made of water, so they should highlight their tender nature. Imagine how your man feels when he comes home after a hard day's work outside and sees not a gentle wife, but a woman who is shouting and shouting? So, you may as well use gentle tactics to immerse your husband in it and also warm up love.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)