"Thirty-year-old" means that people should have a family and a career at the age of 30, make a difference, and be able to face all difficulties calmly. The popular saying of "seven-year itch" is a turning point in the relationship. After marriage for a long time, the freshness is lost. As a result, the fatigue or boredom of marriage has entered the "bottleneck". If you cannot choose an effective method, the marriage may end. Let's ask: What do men think of marriage and happiness after they are three years old?
In my opinion, marrying a good wife is the greatest blessing in a man's life. "Good daughter-in-law" and "good woman" are actually very vague terms. How to define this "good" in every man's heart has its own standards. There are many disputes. I'm afraid that only the public generally agrees that "the right is the best".
1、 I didn't know why I wanted to marry my wife
For a long time, I thought I was not a fool, but I just couldn't figure out why I would marry my wife. Frankly speaking, I really liked many girls when I was in love. The so-called love and being loved both exist. It seems that I have tried as hard as everyone else, excited, depressed and crying. Unfortunately, it seems that it is impossible to have a perfect ending with the first love. Obviously, marriage is different from love. Is it a "conditional relationship"? Maybe it doesn't matter at all. Anyway, the person who gets married is not necessarily the one he loves; Acacia can not live together for a long time. As a result, many people are confused to marry their daughter-in-law in the process of getting married for N times, but do not know why? Is it to complete the task for parents? Or follow the tide and "blindly follow the crowd"?
2、 Don't know how to live after marriage
It should be said that the good days are well honed by the couple. No woman is born to be "housekeeper". Of course, when she is a daughter, the daughter-in-law who teaches well will make faster progress, while the woman who is lazy will be "a loser" at all. "Living in poverty" and "living in poverty" are largely related to women's financial habits. For example, if you have a daughter-in-law, you can make a lot of money. If you have noodles every day in your family, and you have Milton Dunmi, can you really eat them together? How can a man not suffer! It is suggested that when some women complain that men "spend less", they should also consider whether they "spend more". On the issue of "Jieyuan" and "Kailiu", we can only advocate that without the ability of "Kailiu", we should learn "Jieyuan", and especially avoid "muddle along". The good day is not "today we have wine, today we are drunk, tomorrow we have no money to drink cold water".
3、 Women are easily spoiled
Almost all women have a kind of inertia - "rely on", and men are naturally a pair of shoulders. In many cases, women often spoil themselves habitually without being spoiled by men. I'm really worried that some women will be spoiled. It is better to rely on the sky and the earth than on yourself. It is very important for women to be self-reliant.
4、 Every man is selfish
It is a common disease of all men to think about the pot while eating the bowl. Compared with married women, they have self-restraint in this aspect. When it comes to infidelity, no matter what factor, it is irresponsible for marriage. Every man is selfish and thinks of ways to eat meat and fish outside, but his wife is not allowed to steal a sip of soup at home. In fact, many women are quite self-disciplined.
In short, it is a man's blessing to marry a good wife.