The man is cheating! This is the reason for many women to seek psychological counselors. According to the survey results of the psychological channel of Ping An Health Network, a man's infidelity is interpreted by men, and the infidelity also has his own pain, and this kind of pain may have been experienced by most of the infidelity men, but the degree of sadness is different.
"My wife reads my mobile phone text messages every day!" This was said by a man who cheated in Shanghai. He loved his wife very much, but soon after he got married, he found that his wife had a bad habit of checking his mobile phone every day and asking who made the calls and what the information meant. From his mouth, he seems to have endless bitterness.
"My wife asks me to go home before 11 o'clock almost every day, which is hard for me to accept!" said a man from Guangzhou who cheated. He is the boss of a small enterprise, but his wife's restriction on him makes it difficult for him to make progress in business. Because some necessary entertainment was forced to be cancelled because of his wife.
"My wife is good at everything, but I'm not allowed to talk to other strange women!" said an adulterous man from Heilongjiang. He is a senior employee of an enterprise. He is enthusiastic and helps others at ordinary times. But after marriage, he will be forced to be isolated from other women. This made him suffer, which also led to a direct decline in his reputation in the company. Now he is considering divorce from his wife.
From these examples, what can we find? A common feature is that women have a desire to control men. But women often lack the ability to control men. It is this state of wanting to control but not being able to control that makes their marriage face difficulties.