Post Date December, 03 2023
Now when many people are about to enter the marriage palace, they are full of fear about their future marriage. Indeed, the divorce rate is still high, which makes many people have a panic. An unhealthy marriage usually has seven abnormal phenomena, such as often worrying about whether your partner loves you, the other half only treats you in public, and always compares you with others. Let's take a closer look.
1. Often worry about whether your partner loves you and whether you can trust him. Although some people are born with no sense of security, if you worry about marriage every day, for fear that your partner doesn't love you enough, it means that he doesn't give you enough emotional care.
2. Your partner treats you well in public. When you close the door, your partner is rude, complaining, always busy, emotionally alienated from you, and even picky, but very warm to you in front of others. This may mean that the partner knows that his behavior is not correct, but he should maintain his image.
3. Have a "prying desire" and always want to see his mobile phone. If you are paranoid and worried about what your partner is hiding, your marriage may have a crisis of trust. This may be due to your lack of security, insufficient communication between the two, or your partner's lack of openness.
4. Compare you with other same-sex people frequently. Your partner frequently compares you with his "excellent" predecessor and friend's lover, and thinks that you should be more like them in thought and behavior, which is likely to make you lose self-worth and more inferiority. A good partner will often emphasize your strengths and make you feel special.
5. Worried about breaking up because of doing something your partner doesn't like. If you feel that you will be punished or abandoned if you don't meet the conditions in marriage, and you can't relax and feel uneasy in front of your partner, your relationship is unbalanced, and eventually problems will occur.
6. In case of a good thing, your partner is not really happy for you. If your partner doesn't celebrate your success with you, it shows that he feels threatened and oppressed for your development and growth. A really good partner should be happy for your success.
7. Your partner never apologizes. A sign of a healthy marriage is that both parties can be responsible for their own mistakes and try to make up for the damage caused. If your partner never apologizes, or thinks the problems are unintentional, it means that he can't really understand your difficulties.
A healthy marriage cannot be separated from the joint management of husband and wife. After entering a marriage, the relationship may be gradually flat, but we have a lot of responsibilities. Both men and women should strive to shoulder their responsibilities. In addition, before entering a marriage, we should also pay attention to whether the two people's three values are consistent, and whether the basic material life can be guaranteed, which are important factors for the happiness of married life.
