Post Date December, 03 2023
Most men are lascivious
At first glance, you must be surprised and even try to oppose this title. In fact, this is a conservative way of writing. If you write more frankly, you should remove the word "big" and write "all men are lustful". Moreover, not only men, but also women.
"Lust" itself is not wrong.
As early as 2000 years ago, Mencius said, "Food, sex, and sex are the same."
Index refers to diet, color refers to the relationship between men and women, and sex refers to human nature. That is to say, eating and lust are the basic characteristics of human beings.
People are also creatures. All living things should follow the rules of "preserving themselves and reproducing races". To "save yourself", you must take nutrition, which is diet for people. To "multiply the race", we must combine the feelings of men and women, so that human beings can survive from generation to generation.
Therefore, "talking about sex and sex" is a matter of justice, and the era of "talking about sex and color change" has passed.
Although "food" and "color" are very important to people, there are differences between "food" and "color" after all. For example, on New Year's Day, four or five relatives and friends can gather in the lobby or private room of a hotel to "eat together" (strictly speaking, it should be called "dinner together") without the intervention of the police. But it is absolutely impossible to "share colors" in a hotel room (let's put it this creative way). Because "color" contains personal privacy, involves ethics, is limited by laws and regulations, and will have inevitable consequences - fertility. So although talking about "color" can be regarded as a matter of seriousness, it must also be scientific and serious according to the object and situation. Especially for adolescent boys and girls, we should impart sexual knowledge in a timely, appropriate, appropriate and appropriate manner.
Let's return to the topic of "most men are lustful".
As early as BC, the earliest collection of poems in China, The Book of Songs, included: "Guan Guan Jujiu, who lives on the river island; my fair lady, who is a gentleman's good mate." It means: "Guan Guan Guan's crying Jujiu, who lives on the river sandbar; beautiful and virtuous girl, who is really my ideal mate."
When men see "my fair lady", they will be moved to pursue. This is also a natural law. "The opposite sex attracts", so "lust" is human nature.
Once I went to a vocational high school to give a lecture, the author asked the students attending the lecture, "Are you lecherous?" Most of the female students present had flushed cheeks and bowed their heads, while most of the male students nodded frequently. Suddenly a small boy stood up and said, "Teacher, I am absolutely not lustful!"
He said while making a strange look, and burst out laughing.
The author asked him, "If in front of you, there is a bunch of flowers on one side and a pile of stinky shit on the other, which side would you look at?"
"Of course I like to see flowers," he replied.
The author also asked: "If there is a gorgeous girl on one side and an aging beggar on the other, which side would you look at more?"
"I'm sure I'll see more girls," he replied sharply.
"Let me ask you again, are your parents lecherous?"
He thought for a moment, then said with some embarrassment, "They are not lustful."
"But if they are not lustful and don't marry, how can they have your son? On the other hand, if they are also lustful, won't they pass on the lustful genes to you? How can you be absolutely not lustful?"
He scratched his head and was speechless.
It is very likely that when people hear about "lust", they think of "lustful people" - those who are specially seeking sexual favors and morally corrupt, so they do not admit that they are "lustful". In fact, it is very normal to like good-looking people and things. It is because people love beauty that they have aesthetics and related arts, such as painting, photography, opera, dance and so on.
As far as female sex is concerned, although men love it, they have three different attitudes.
There is a local opera in Anhui. The name of the opera may be called "Xiaozhidian". Because of its long history, I can't remember it clearly. There are several words in the play: "The first person, he loves flowers (referring to women), only looks at them but does not pick them; the second person, he loves flowers for his descendants; the third person, he loves flowers and abuses them."
The refined scholars who only appreciate beautiful women and have no distractions are the first class. The lascivious people who seek flowers and willows are the third class. However, most of them are second-class people, who normally marry and have children and live a lifetime.
(Intern editor: Wu Weijie)
