For extramarital affairs, although a man physically conquers another woman, he always considers himself a loser spiritually.
This is because men have not lost their most basic moral values psychologically. In terms of psychology, men tend to have too much entanglement with women, especially their original wives.
The mentality of 'owe'
Some lovers eventually fail to become family members, and either party becomes a family, or after one party becomes a family, the other party is unwilling to become a family and still secretly loves the other party. When one party's life is difficult or the marital relationship is not harmonious, the other party feels that they still owe the other party a love, so they actively throw themselves into the arms of their old lover, and the old love revives, resulting in extramarital love. In fact, not all lovers can become family members. Since both parties have already married or the other party has already married, they should face reality and cherish their marital relationship. When the other party has difficulties in life or their marital relationship is not harmonious, using extramarital love to repay the other party's love is not so much to help the other party, but rather to harm the other party, which is actually useless.
Greedy mentality
Some people, due to their greed for the other party's money and disregarding their own personality, voluntarily commit themselves to the other party in exchange for a few copper coins, thus forming an extramarital relationship. In fact, personality is priceless treasure, and money is an extramarital thing. More is more used, less is spent. Why exchange priceless treasure for a few copper coins? In addition, those who have money should also avoid it. Since the other party is greedy for your money, there is no need to pay the truth for the other party and have a romantic relationship.
Color psychology
Some people engage in extramarital love due to their desire for the beauty of their female partner or the physical fitness of their male partner. In fact, beauty on the outside will naturally disappear with age, and only spiritual beauty is eternal. Like wine, the longer it lasts, the more mellow it becomes. Therefore, the most important thing is to be good at discovering the shining points of your spouse and giving your true love, so that there will naturally be beauty in the eyes of your lover.
Reporting psychology
Some people receive help from the other party due to difficulties in life, or have an extramarital affair due to their husband being away for a long time and their family being taken care of by the other party for a long time. They have no choice but to sacrifice their bodies, resulting in no return. In fact, since the other party is sincere in helping you, they do not seek your reward. If the other party is kind to you, just remember it in your heart. Why give up your body? If it affects the other party's family as a result, is it not a good intention to do bad things.
Hate mentality
Some couples may have an extramarital affair because one party has an affair and refuses to listen to advice, while the other party actively seeks revenge on the other party, resulting in an extramarital affair. In fact, knowing that the other party has an affair is wrong, why do you search for a third party? Isn't it just knowing that you made a mistake? Moreover, marriage is free, and divorce is also free. If the relationship has indeed broken down and there is no possibility of reconciliation, it's better to divorce. It's better to be friends than to retaliate.
Strange Psychology
Some couples have a mediocre and mundane life, feeling dull and tasteless, while the male and female protagonists in movies and TV series are deeply in love with their lovers, experiencing a lively and unrestrained life. They also want to experience this kind of life. Therefore, driven by this curiosity, extramarital love arises. In fact, peace and security are blessings. Don't look at the mountains from one mountain to the other, as you may not know the blessings in your blessings.