Post Date December, 03 2023
It is easy to see whether a man is lying again. After all, people are not machines. They will be nervous if they lie. At this time, as long as women pay more attention, it is easy to see men's lies.
Little actions that men can't avoid when lying
1. He avoids eye contact with you
A person's eyes can reveal many secrets of his heart.
If he subconsciously avoids your eyes when talking to you, it is likely that he has hidden something from you.
2. He promised you anything
Once a man lies to a woman, he will tend to compensate for his inner apologies by satisfying your wishes.
If he is not a generous and generous man on weekdays, it is necessary for you to be more considerate.
3. He kept repeating the same sentence
This shows that he is trying to convince you that the lies he told are true.
In addition, if there is some strange tone change in his voice, it also means that he is trying to cover up his panic.
A white lie that a man will tell only when he loves you
Past girlfriend
Cause: self-protection
Most women are curious and want to know the real situation of their husbands' past girlfriends. When men with strong sense of privacy face these problems, it is conceivable that they want to muddle through.
At the same time, he also knew that he should be honest and not let his lover tangle, but some questions they did not like to answer, because their past emotions were their safest privacy.
How can I lie to you
Reason: Let the lover dispel doubts
Men want to live happily, so the best way to dispel women's doubts in a man's mouth is this sentence. Of course, it depends on what kind of person he is and the strength of your marriage relationship. It may take a lifetime to find the answer.
But one thing is certain that men want a perfect ending like a Hollywood movie.
I am the best
Reason: It makes you think marriage is worthwhile
Men often exaggerate when describing their bravery and strength, their experience, or their important position in their jobs.
He did this just to make you remember that you married the right person, and to talk big is just to satisfy your good feelings.
If you don't want to, neither do I
Reason: avoid becoming a sex wolf who forces his wife
When you say that you are not in mood or in bad health, a man can only hide his inner disappointment, so as not to be regarded as a person who only pursues enjoyment and does not know tenderness.
In fact, it is very difficult to be a man. You should understand both romance and respect. You can't move around casually, and you can't fail. So, men sometimes have to lie.
This dress looks beautiful on you
Reason: avoid disputes
Men will always give similar answers to their wives' questions, which may be that they are not willing to hurt your self-esteem, do not want to make trouble for themselves, and at the same time avoid causing your displeasure or misunderstanding.
Nothing
Cause: heal alone
When a man encounters a problem, he always says that he is OK. In fact, he is just waiting for himself to silently lick his wounds.
Men also have feelings of sadness and depression. For men, bleeding is glorious, and refusing to use band-aids is sacred.
They sometimes hide themselves with lies to escape from the frightening dialogue.
I can repair it
Reason: maintain self-confidence
If a man can't fix a tool at home, he will tell a lie that it is broken and should be replaced with a new one.
Because if he admits to failure and asks his wife to repair it, he will feel that it hurts his self-confidence.
I called you
Cause: self-defence
All men think they are super good people.
So when you meet a man who forgot to call you, or failed to finish the task you told him because he was late for the appointment, he usually uses this excuse.
Please forgive him more. For men, lying is sometimes one of the ways to avoid being hurt.
How to deal with men's lies
Many people always lie when they meet a man, often find excuses to coax their problems, and can't find a better way to deal with them. So what should they do when they meet a man who lies?
See why he lied
There are many reasons why men lie, for the sake of mistress, face, friends and so on.
When dealing with the problem of men's lies, we should correctly judge the reasons for men's lies and not kill a boat of people with one stroke.
It is a big taboo for both parties to always drag the reason of lying to the principled question of whether a man is a mistress or not.
Sideswipe
You can pretend that nothing has happened and borrow other people's words.
Go to test the man's caliber, see how he reacts, and weigh the pros and cons to see if he should tell the truth.
Gentle strategy
Many times, men know that their wives know they have lied, but they will not admit it.
Especially in the face of questioning from their wives, men feel very resistant and feel that their wives are neurotic and monitor their actions.
In order to change this situation, wives can learn the means of playing coquettish and selling whine.
In daily life, more gentle strategies are used to capture men, making them feel happy, relaxed and happy in the face of their wives, so that they will be more willing to express their true thoughts.
Arm oneself
A wife who is untidy and has no personality will lose her husband's love. We should be very clear that if you want her husband to be obedient to you, you cannot relax the pursuit of beauty.
We should actively improve ourselves from both external image and internal temperament, and be a good wife who can serve the hall and the kitchen.
Although the man who always lies is still a little short of cheating, such a man still has no relationship with him.
