"If any marriage is exploited by extramarital love, its outcome will not be too good, and basically it ends in a" breakup. "". "An extramarital affair cannot be traced to one party's problems. As the saying goes," one hand cannot clap, "it is caused by the joint intervention of both spouses and a third party.". When an extramarital affair occurs, there may be some precursors or hidden dangers that have already been buried.
Violent tendencies
Domestic violence is the most destructive to a couple's emotions. Generally, the perpetrator is the husband and the victim is the wife. Beating a woman not only shows a man's incompetence, but also destroys the relationship between husband and wife. Some "powerful and unyielding" wives will directly request a divorce, and the process must be very bumpy.
There are also some wimpy wives who dare not even think of the word divorce and have to suffer silently. However, when there are objects in their lives that they can confide in, such as blue confidants, their hearts shrouded in darkness can feel a touch of warmth. When this happens, a confidant may become a lover, and only in the arms of the lover can the persecuted woman find comfort. However, this is also an extramarital affair.
Conflict of interests and hobbies
Couple life requires emotions as the foundation, but emotions cannot represent everything. Many couples with high emotional standards also experience extramarital affairs, which can be caused by two reasons: first, material needs cannot be met; 2、 Whether the interests of the couple are compatible or not.
When a loved one cannot become a confidant or even engage in interesting and congenial communication, one party will seek comfort from the unexpected opposite sex of the couple. This comfort will escalate as people get along, resulting in extramarital love.
Vanity
In the eyes of ordinary people, successful men are rich and advantageous. This group full of bronze has one thing in common: vanity is very strong. With strong financial resources and a pompous mood, their subjective consciousness can be distorted, the most direct manifestation of which is their lack of affection and their focus on interests and vanity. Women who marry this kind of man often have a common evil: staying alone in an empty room. Men, on the other hand, engage in extramarital affairs outside, laughing and laughing every day. Of course, those beautiful women are also regularly replaced.
Faced with this situation, most women acquiesce in their husband's extramarital love behavior. They abandoned their emotions for material reasons and placed themselves in a "cold palace" of intense suffering.