After putting in a lot of effort, I finally embrace the beauty and return, but my friend's words have caused a sharp decline in my wife's image

A girl came to the company, very peaceful. Sitting next to me and looking over from the side, my heart couldn't help but feel nervous. I have been in love several times, but in the end, I went my separate ways for a simple reason: my personality doesn't match. I take things like emotions very lightly. If possible, I would rather live alone. Her appearance changed my perspective, and I regained the feeling of wanting to be in love. I decided to pursue her and mobilized my colleagues to help me.

She has an independent personality and usually comes and goes alone. I have had many encounters, but she remained unmoved and resigned from her job. I inquired about her residence and went to see her whenever I had the opportunity. Hard work pays off to those who have a heart, and my persistence has moved her. She accepted me and our lives intersected. After falling in love, I found that she was very introverted and didn't talk much. She liked to sit alone by the window in a daze, as if her heart was filled with worries. Never drinking alcohol, it is rare for women in the workplace in today's society not to drink at all.

I took her to meet her parents, and they were satisfied. They took the dowry and went to the woman's side to discuss the marriage. The wedding day was very lively. Relatives and friends have all come, and with their blessings, we hold hands and take the oath, never abandoning each other.

After marriage, she was very considerate to me. She usually leaves work early and helps me prepare dinner. She has a great cooking skill, which can be said to be very secretive. We were chatting and laughing together, and she told me stories about her hometown, interesting stories about school, and kept silent on things like stepping into society. I was a bit depressed. After a year of peaceful living, we plan to have a child.

A month ago, a friend invited me to a dinner party, and I brought my wife with me. Some friends didn't attend my wedding, so I took this opportunity to introduce my wife and get to know each other. Long time no see, we had two more drinks. After the party, a friend drank too much and insisted on saying a few words to me, while also making my wife avoid it. I supported my wife and asked her to drive to the garage, while I took care of him.

My wife walked in front of me, and my friends in the back talked to me incessantly, "When you got married, I thought your wife was familiar with you. When I went back and checked, I found out that her former boss had taken care of her lover. Later, because she was pregnant, the boss's wife discovered her and tore her up in the street, causing her to miscarry. The boss also lost face, so I gave her a sum of money and let her make a living on her own." I was confused, how could there be such a coincidence, Is this the reason why my wife doesn't want to recall the past?

I felt nauseous in my heart, and her image plummeted in my heart. After returning home, I couldn't help but showdown. My wife said calmly, "This matter will be known to you sooner or later. I didn't agree to your pursuit back then because of this matter, and I didn't want you to be ashamed. I had to do that kind of thing back then. I wasn't a greedy person, and my father was seriously ill and I had no choice." After that, she cried and put the divorce agreement that had already been signed in front of me. I'm dumbfounded. I didn't expect her to behave like this. What should I do? My heart is in turmoil.

Reply from Weiqing Consultant:

Hello. It was you who pursued her back then, but now it's you who still despises her. Everyone has their own past, and your wife should also work hard on what happened back then. She refused to reveal it but didn't want to untie this scar. Now, your life is very smooth because of the words spoken by outsiders, your feelings for your wife have been shaken, indicating that you don't love her as much as you imagined. If you respect and love her, please cherish it well. Don't deny her right to pursue happiness due to external factors. If you can't accept her past, please let go. This is a release for you and her.