My husband and I got to know each other through blind dates, with a weak relationship. We got married and had children, and everything was planned. One year later, the birth of the child added a lot of happiness to our family. During pregnancy, I found out that he had text messages with strange women, but I didn't care. Perhaps it was his client, and I was intent on giving birth to welcome the arrival of the baby. After sitting in confinement, I breathed a sigh of relief. In my opinion, the most difficult days for a woman are pregnancy and confinement. Various constraints make people breathless.
After the baby's full moon, my mother-in-law helped me take care of it, and I had free time to interact with my husband. "My mother-in-law is very kind and treats me like my own daughter. I am very pleased.". After giving birth to the baby, I couldn't get enough milk, so the baby could only eat milk powder. In order to give me a good rest, my mother-in-law actively undertook the task of feeding milk powder at night. In this way, my husband and I have returned to normal life. "At night, we lived a married life, and for the first time after giving birth, I was very excited, but my husband didn't have that excitement. Before I could find that excitement, he was over.".
In the days that followed, I was even more depressed. "He has been shouting tired, unable to handle himself, and in a low mood, feeling a bit of hiding from me.". Later, my mother-in-law heard someone say that my child's milk powder is not as good as breast milk, so she cooked me various milk promoting soups. The task of breastfeeding at night fell on me again. I forgot my husband's psychological changes again. The first child born was a daughter, and my mother-in-law wanted me to have another one. The two children will not be lonely in the future. "She is young now, and can help me bring more, reducing my burden.". My husband and I thought she was thoughtful, so we compromised.
When my child was two years old, my husband and I planned to have a second child. Perhaps it's because I want to have a baby. My husband worked very hard, and after three months, I successfully conceived the baby. After my first production experience, I wasn't so cautious the second time. I focused on my child and husband, and during this time, I once again found him chatting with strange women. This time, I didn't let it go, but I tracked it down. I secretly read their chat records, and the ambiguous language made people even more disgusting.
"I exposed the matter, but he said it was just a chat with ordinary friends.". I asked my husband to consider from the standpoint of a strange female husband. If I sent these chat records to the other husband, what would the other husband think? "My husband explained that it was just entertainment, just playing tricks on the spot.". I asked him if he had ever acted in bed, but he even got angry with me and said I insulted his personality. Now that he has moved to the guest room to sleep, we have been sharing rooms for a week. This time when I was pregnant with a second child, I had a particularly strong reaction and vomited after eating something. He didn't care at all. He kept saying that I had wronged him and complained to his mother-in-law.
Now, when I calm down, I can think of him in bed with an ambiguous woman. "I don't want my imagination to come true, either. I just want him to give me an honest explanation, but he responded to me with a cold war.". What on earth should I do to hide himself like this?
Reply from the maintenance consultant:
From your account, after giving birth to a baby, your husband has been yelling and tired, unable to handle it. At this time, you have neglected to communicate with him because of bringing children. The change of men often begins with the neglect of women, and once the vigorous flame is ignored by the other party, it will gradually fade with the passage of time.
What you see is their ambiguous chat record, and his failure to acknowledge it indicates that he doesn't want your relationship to tear apart in the depths of his heart, at least he still cares about you. "Now that you are pregnant with a child, don't confront him hard, be honest with him, and don't take drastic actions to make him feel bad about it.". Pay more attention to his behavior. "If he has a sneaky mind, you can definitely catch him at the moment.". When the facts are in front of you, you are making certain plans. wish you success.