Sexual Health
After his business failure, he took the initiative to divorce. I signed with tears in my eyes, but the truth behind it was so unbearable
My husband and I grew up in the same place. We were classmates in junior high school. At that time, we were young. We never thought we would be a family in the future. When I graduated from college, I had a reunion with my classmates, and I left my contact information when I met with them. Then I got married and had children today. Speaking of the time when I just graduated, life was really unhappy.
The intern's salary is low. The two of us have just established a relationship and it is difficult to live together. He can't find a house, so he has to lay a floor in my house and live together for a month. He is safe and quiet, and never forces me to do things I don't like. Later, he found his house and moved away. I went to clean his room and cook dinner for him every three or five times. At that time, I recognized him. After a year of love, we got married. After marriage, the husband and wife had the same old job, and the social competition was fierce. He increasingly felt that working was unproductive and had the idea of starting a business.
I support him. It is good for people to pursue and dream. He said he could do it, raise money, run away from customers, and was so busy that he only had one meal a day. At the beginning, it was inevitable to lose money. His anxious hair was gray. Later, he accumulated experience. Through summary, the project improved and became better and better. In less than three years, his project doubled.
There is not too much money. When he earns the first barrel of gold, he will throw money into it without limit. I felt that he seemed to be possessed by magic. I advised him to keep flowing. He criticized me for being a woman. At that time, I was pregnant, and it was not easy to get angry with him. The frequency of his coming home is also getting lower and lower, and the time is getting later and later. I have a big belly, and I am bored at home, and I cry bitterly. Every time he sees me feeling down, he just comforts me a few words, and it's over.
I don't know what he is doing outside. I'm worried that something will happen to him. He stayed up late that night. I was afraid that he was drunk, so I called to remind him to go home early. It took him three or four times to answer the phone. It was very unpleasant to hear his voice. It seemed that something had happened. After a few words, I hung up. When he came back the next day, he told me that the business had gone bad and that the shareholders had withdrawn their capital
At that time, I felt dark and fainted. When I woke up, I was lying in the hospital with a flat stomach. I was shocked. I thought I was too frightened and miscarried. When the doctor saw me open my eyes, he explained that the baby was safe because of the premature delivery caused by emotional stress. Fortunately, the mother and child were safe.
I sighed. After the doctor left, my husband walked in. He looked haggard and handed me a card. He said, "There are three hundred thousand yuan in it. You should spend it first." While talking, he took out a divorce agreement. I was dumbfounded. He continued, "I don't want to involve you and children because of the failure of my business. Please sign it. I will come back to you when my side is stable.". I refused to live or die, he shouted, "Do you want to let your child live a hard life just after birth?"?
I cried and signed trembling.
He helped me get the full moon wine, gave my TOEFL to my mother and disappeared. The phone couldn't get through. My mother has always said that he didn't fulfill his responsibilities as a husband and father. I don't know how to explain our current relationship and situation. I don't know how many tears I secretly wiped. A year later, when he came back, he found me and said that he was looking after the children. I saw that he was full of spring and should have passed the difficult time and looked forward to our remarriage with joy.
However, he said, "I really can't resist the failure of the business. There is an investor who likes me, and I only want to divorce her to invest money. So, I'm sorry for you, please forgive me. We can't be married anymore, I have married her, and this is one million you take first... not enough for me to give you, help me take care of my children". I was stunned. The news seemed like a bolt from the blue.
I waited for him for a year, but he had another woman outside. He trampled on his self-esteem and abandoned his wife for the sake of money. How did I like this kind of man. So disappointed, so angry, what should I do? I'm not willing to see him and other women happy.
reply:
For the sake of his career, a man chooses to divorce and let his wife free. In fact, to put it bluntly is to abandon his wife's status quo for his own ambition. This kind of man is not worth keeping. He deceives you with lies and makes you wait hard. Now he is developed again. It is really annoying to use money to send you away. However, it is already the case. He uses money to compensate you. In this case, you cannot be arrogant, let alone cheap. The child needs to eat milk powder, and all places need money. It is justifiable to spend his money.
It is much better to see a person's true face clearly than to be covered in a drum. Cheer up and take a fresh look at life.