An ordinary friend is a very subtle thing, too close, which can easily make the other party feel pressure; Too far away, easy to lose control. It's not easy to grasp this distance, but if you do, you have a certain proportion in the other person's life.
When contacting the other party, suppress the thoughts that are about to gush out, and be like an ordinary friend, not frequently, no matter how crazy the thoughts may be.
Secondly, leaving dynamic traces in his life
It's best if you have good friends in common, such as contacting your mutual friends to organize a party where they can understand your current state and the changes you have made during this time
If you don't have a common friend, then look for places in your life that may intersect, your common interests and hobbies, places where they often appear, etc. Encounters can also be artificially set!
Before meeting, of course, you need to do some preparation work, including physical and psychological aspects. In terms of appearance, it is necessary to give it a good polish and strive to give it a bright feeling in front of him. Psychologically, maintain a calm mind and pay attention to the atmosphere when meeting. The atmosphere is more important than the conversation content. It is not recommended to talk about emotions when you come up. You can talk more about your recent news, as the other party can easily fall in love with you again.
Finally: Cultivate oneself and become a better self
What is a woman's weapon? Tenderness and charm are absolutely deadly!
She should play the piano and read books.
She planned her own little life and went for coffee with her best friend.
She goes for a beauty surgery, her skin can break if she blows.
She goes to a yoga studio to exercise, and her figure is always graceful and graceful.
She is known for her filial piety towards her parents.
She remained calm and did herself well.
Cultivate oneself, continuously enhance one's charm, and be good at oneself.
If you are in full bloom, butterflies come naturally,
How could my ex boyfriend be a problem? I'm constantly impressed by your charm, please go back!