After being a junior, I wanted to break up with the other party, but he often pestered me

I am from Shanghai. After I knew him for a year, he bought a second-hand house. We decorated it together, cleaned it together, and planned how to decorate it together. Within a few months, I found that the name of his wife and his wife were on the property certificate. Then I knew that he had married and had a child. At that time, I said that I would break up, and I would not be a third party. He said that he would deal with these things well.

But later, he took his wife directly to live there. I said that since you have a good life, we have feelings, and you have responsibilities. Don't contact in the future. He didn't come to me for about 10 days, and then he came every day. Because he worked in the city and bought a house far away, he and his wife made excuses to stay in the dormitory overtime. He stayed with me every day, and she would destroy me if I wanted to talk to him. Although I have feelings for him, I have my own view of right and wrong. So I told his brother about it and hoped that he could persuade her to stop pestering me, but it was useless.

Now we fight as soon as we meet. I think it has become a torture. I don't know what he is thinking? In the same city, he didn't go home for a few days, but just called his wife on time every day. His wife never asked him. I wanted to live a normal life without being entangled, and I also wanted to leave. But my current job is my continuous efforts, and I am also very entangled in giving up.

But what he is most afraid of is his wife. My question now is whether I can tell his wife this? I'm fed up with his cheating. I said he would find his wife if he pestered me again. He said I threatened him. He said he would not allow me to make a blind date without his permission. So help me. It's hard for me to talk to my friend if I'm a third party. It's really tangled. I don't know what to do?

reply:

1. For women, being a mistress is not terrible. What is terrible is that they will continue to tangle with each other after being a mistress. No matter whether you have feelings for the other party or not, once you find that your feelings have been cheated and used, the wisest choice is to get out in time and completely cut off the love with the other party.

2. It can be seen that you have a strong desire to get rid of the entanglement of the other party. However, you have met a particularly difficult rogue who is dead in the face and don't know how to get rid of him. Since you can't stand the entanglement of the other party, you need to show a tough attitude, don't leave any life for the other party, and give him a stern warning. Don't say being a third party is a normal person, and you also have the right to break up. Why don't you insist on it. For this reason, don't be afraid of the entanglement of the other party. As long as your attitude is firm enough, I think there is nothing difficult. If you are really unwilling, if he still does so, it is interference with your freedom and harassment. You can also call the police. So, you are not tough enough.

3. In the same sentence, there is no inextricable entanglement, and there is no inextricable entanglement, as long as you dare to turn your face with him. The most frightening thing is that you still think about his good and take into account his feelings; He said that he was tired, but he accepted his entanglement psychologically. If he is really afraid of his wife, you can check him through his wife. When he pesters you again, you can record or video the whole process, and then secretly send it to his wife. Use the facts to irritate his wife, and his wife will naturally pick him up. You should understand that this man is not a good bird. The reason why he keeps pestering you is to selfishly continue to possess you. Therefore, you have no need to be polite to him. Don't be fooled by his hypocrisy. He is a rotten rogue and a rotten rogue.