Post Date December, 03 2023
Hello, teacher. Please help me, what should I do?
I am 27 years old this year. It has been thirteen years since my first love was interrupted, and now I am at the age of marriage. But he never gave me a clear answer. We have been living apart. Earlier this year, I met another person who impressed me, but we weren't sure about the relationship between our boyfriend and girlfriend. My family has been urging me to get married quickly, but my boyfriend hasn't responded at all. In the past, he said he loved me and asked me to wait for him. Now, he doesn't say anything. When I ask him if he loves me, he is silent. He also said that some questions never have answers. Aren't you willing to marry me and not even say how you feel about me?
Teacher, what should I do? "Now this man treats me very well and feels happier and more comfortable with us together. I also like him very much, but my boyfriend doesn't say he's okay with me or that he's okay with me. I really don't know what to do.". Can you point me in a direction?
Miss Zhang:
I believe that your thirteen year romance is also unforgettable to you. In the best years of life, it is also very difficult for you to meet such a boy who appeals to you and maintain a love relationship with him intermittently for 13 years. Reasonably, such relationships are also becoming increasingly mature, and marriage is an inevitable choice for you. However, what makes it difficult for a boyfriend to even love you, and can't give you an answer for the future?
Is such a person worth trusting for life? How do you feel about your experience with him over the years? Are you now sticking to your habits and original promises, or do you really love her with all your heart and soul? "You said that you met this man who made you moved, so if you hadn't had such a disorganized relationship with your boyfriend now, and you were just a person, would you be willing to accept this man's love for you?"?
Your boyfriend's attitude is inevitably suspicious. Your future time can not only be spent with him, but also with another person you love together. If your boyfriend really loves you, how can he have the heart to let you suffer from lovesickness alone in a different place. Whether your love is reliable or not requires you to think twice.
