Post Date December, 03 2023
A few years ago, it was popular for husbands to accompany childbirth, which of course had a positive significance. However, similar situations of low sexual desire or even sexual aversion in men may also occur, because these men are not mentally prepared enough and their psychological quality is relatively poor, which people did not expect. Since sexual desire can be influenced by emotional factors generated by both internal and external environments, the best and most effective approach is still consultation and treatment. The following measures will be very helpful.
(1) Eliminating concerns: Decreased libido is a normal phenomenon in middle-aged people, but it does not necessarily mean complete disappearance. Temporary disappearance does not necessarily mean permanent disappearance. As long as one can correctly understand and understand this physiological change and make good psychological adjustments, then through consultation and treatment, it is possible to restore and maintain sufficient sexual interest, and make sexual relationships as good as before. A convincing report and detailed explanation regarding normal physical examinations can dispel patients' concerns.
(2) Talking about inner feelings: Let patients fully and freely express their fear, anger, grief, anxiety and other uncomfortable emotions, which will help clear their minds of confusion and interference, and is a key step to reduce their negative impact. Doctors must be compassionate, and the conditions of the consultation room must be conducive to confidentiality and freedom from external interference. Patiently resolving his resistance during childbirth is particularly important.
(3) Desensitization: It is necessary to repeatedly mention the psychological confusion that causes interference and cannot be resolved. Repeatedly raising this question can gradually reduce or even eliminate its impact on patients, or ignore it.
(4) Support: Providing comfort and encouragement to the patient, making them feel that the situation can be changed, is promising. Propose various possible solutions and encourage patients to choose a practical and feasible approach. We should avoid making decisions for patients and explain the pros and cons of various methods before patients make their own decisions. Helping patients solve many practical problems is essential for alleviating crises.
(5) Insight: Through detailed analysis of patient conversations, uncover inner conflicts, correct misconceptions, and allow patients to discover their own problems, which is more meaningful.
(6) Suggestion and guidance: It is best to minimize direct advice and point out the drawbacks of excessive concentration on performance abilities to patients, as this can only increase anxiety. Focusing on improving one's own and the other's enjoyment, finding and eliminating the pressure of low libido can itself promote the resurgence of libido, and various psychological pressures will disappear.
Men not only need to get rid of their negative emotions, but also help their partners overcome these psychological barriers together. If the psychological problem is solved, then the problem of erections will be easily solved.
