Post Date December, 03 2023
Yang Yang always favors his father because his mother is too strong. At home, my mother says one, but my father dare not say two, and even he is very afraid of my mother. He once asked his father why he was always bullied by his mother and didn't dare to resist? Dad always answers him with a smile because Mom is right.
However, Yang Yang is too young to understand his father's words. He only knows that he doesn't like his mother and only likes to talk to his father. As he grew older, Yang Yang increasingly felt that his mother was too "excessive", while his father was too "weak". It is fitting to describe them as' strong wives and weak husbands'. Yang Yang began to rebel against his mother and no longer sympathized with his father. Instead, he distanced himself and felt that he lacked masculinity. Yang Yang envies those classmates whose father is the "master" of the family. He believes that only then can the family be happy and happy.
As time passed, Yang Yang's age kept pace with the times, and his experience and experience gradually increased. Yang Yang found that the kind of happy family he envied was not as good as he imagined. Many male chauvinistic husbands either hit or curse their wives, and those with a "small treasury" are always willing to engage in extramarital affairs or indulge in one night stands. Looking back at their parents, their mother is still so "domineering" and their father is still so "weak", but they live a very happy life, and neither of them has let down this family.
At this moment, Yang Yang finally understood that his mother's strength is for the family to become better and better, while his father's weakness provides a favorable foundation for his mother, giving her space to exert her abilities. This is a mutually inclusive love, with which marriage and family become more harmonious.
The marriage of 'strong wife and weak husband' is also very happy
A strong wife and a weak husband are not objective master-slave relationships, but rather a manifestation of mutual tolerance and humility between husband and wife.
The wife's tough behavior is reflected in family affairs, as many couples do in real life. The woman manages household affairs, while the man travels to earn money and turns in the "funds" after returning home. However, this situation must be based on a deep relationship between the two, and the woman's ability to control family finances and loyalty to the family, in order to be implemented.
The weakness of a husband does not necessarily mean that he is weak and incompetent, but rather a manifestation of men's respect for women. As Ye Wen said in the movie "Ye Wen", "Men are not afraid of their wives, but respect their wives. If the person who shows "weakness" due to respect for their wife is regarded as cowardice, then they absolutely do not understand women and love.
Therefore, "strong wife and weak husband" is a manifestation of harmonious emotions between husband and wife, not someone who "leads" or "follows". Only by achieving this state of 'women sing and men follow' can marriage and family be more fulfilling.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
