A photo in his husband's wallet revealed that he was cheating with his female colleague

My husband cheated after I gave birth to the baby. The female colleague who worked with him, I accidentally saw the woman send him a message saying "Dear", and then I realized there was a problem.

Sure enough, there is a picture of the woman in her husband's wallet, and the woman is six years older than my husband, and there are children. What should I do? He didn't agree to divorce him, but I hate him in my heart. What should I do if the child is small? He said that he didn't do anything wrong to me. It was the woman who took the initiative.

reply:

This is the case with men. Before being caught, they often choose to be tough and put all their actions on the junior. The reason why men are so cunning is that they don't want to lose their marriage except for the mistakes they don't want to admit. Therefore, you don't need to be too serious and pestering.

In fact, it doesn't depend on his attitude, but on you. You should know that there is no marriage without divorce. The key is whether you think well, and how much determination and confidence you have to face the choice of divorce. If you do not have a good plan for divorce, you can only grievance yourself first, bite your teeth and give the other party a chance, and find out the reason in yourself to see if you can improve the marriage situation through self-adjustment and further management.

Personally, if your emotional foundation and marriage relationship are not yet inseparable and broken, you'd better find ways to repair them, perhaps with less cost and loss. Besides, your husband's cheating may be just a temporary temptation. He doesn't want to abandon you and your family.

WeChat letter:

Hello, I went through the divorce procedure today. My husband has a woman outside, and I also know that she has a woman outside, so I can't accept living with him as a husband and wife, so I often quarrel. He also said that I was wrong, and I proposed that as long as they broke up, I would forgive, but my husband said that he was just playing, she can satisfy him, I can't stand it, divorce, I know the woman's phone number, I want to send a message to tell her, Today, he divorced, and she destroyed everything. Should I send a text message?

reply:

Now that we are divorced, is it still meaningful to send this message? Now the most important thing is to think about what to do after divorce? How to make your life brighter and more wonderful than before. In fact, most of the time, their men who cheat should be more responsible for their men's problems and their own problems, which have little to do with others.