Post Date December, 03 2023
A US survey found that 62% of divorces were initiated by wives. This number really scares many men, and also raises a question for them: How can men maintain their marriage and make their career and marriage fruitful? Here are five suggestions and secrets.
(1) I often say "I love you" and "I understand" to her
There is a joke telling the difference between men and women. Before a man dies, he is usually busy explaining the property or career he has earned from his hard work all his life. But a woman holds her husband's hand and asks, "Do you only love me in your life?"
"I love you" is never too much for women, because the feeling of being loved and valued is their most basic need in marriage. Husband should spend some time to make expression more interesting and creative. For example, when you get up in the morning, you can hug your wife first and say it in your ear. When working in the daytime, you can make a surprise phone call and say these three words to ensure that she will be happy. Or write a small card and paste it on the kitchen or mirror so that she can see it inadvertently, which is another move.
"I understand" is another useful sentence. Wives are often full of bitter water or hard work, while husbands may think it is a big deal. But as long as he listens quietly and says "I understand" or "reasonable" from time to time, he can make his wife feel more comforted.
(2) List 5 chores that your wife wants you to do most
American psychologist Quimo suggested in the book "When Mr. Sex Meets Miss Love" that the husband should ask his wife to list five household chores she most wants to help with, and show her support and concern with practical actions. These things must be very clear, such as "help the child take a bath", "take out the garbage" or "clean the house".
A US study found that men who love housework are the most attractive and their children are more obedient. Because the father participates in housework, he can set a good example for children and learn to treat others and things. This will also make the wife feel happy.
(3) Ignite your wife's enthusiasm with gratitude and praise
Macton, the author of "Man, Who Are You?" pointed out that women are mostly willing to go through fire and water for the man they love. But the premise is that we can often get the affirmation of the other party. If the husband has been indifferent and takes it for granted, the wife's fiery heart will cool down over time. "In fact, as long as the husband shows appreciation and gratitude in time, they can rekindle their enthusiasm."
From the physical characteristics of the outside to the beautiful characteristics of the inside, we should praise them one by one. Remember, it is not enough to say it once. If you want others to remember something, repeat it at least five times. Also, don't forget to boast about the merits of your wife in front of others. If these words are reported to her ears, they will stimulate her love. Because women living in praise will always be bright and moving
(Intern editor: Cai Junyi)
