Post Date December, 03 2023
Men have a strong exterior, but they also have a fragile inner side. In terms of closeness, what are men's "extraordinary desires" for their wives?
One of the "non shared desires": the more women love, the braver men become
A man does not reject fulfilling his obligations to his family and women. If he can clearly know how much his wife loves him and how much she is intoxicated with the happiness of living with him, he will sacrifice everything for his family and wife without hesitation.
On the contrary, if a man is uncertain about his family and women's feelings and even has unnecessary worries, he will act like a rogue. When it comes to family and their own women, men like to hear answers like Mrs. Eisenhower's: "The greatest career life brings to a woman is to be a wife
Second, having a broad mind and truly understanding men's shortcomings and faults
Men attach much more importance to their families and women than women imagine, and they are always accustomed to treating their families and women as safe havens and safe havens. So they hope that this place can fully accommodate their successes and failures, and always open their arms to welcome them back.
The third part of "non shared thoughts": Women must be hygienic and love cleanliness
Although they are lazy and dirty themselves, they cannot tolerate a woman who does not wash her face or feet, and remains indifferent to the chaotic home. Because they believe that their family and their women are their true faces.
The fourth part of "non shared thoughts": Men need the title of head of a family
Women always like to compete with men on the issue of the head of the family, as if the head of the family can really influence something. In fact, what men demand is just a status. They are so lazy, how can they take on the responsibility of buying groceries and washing dishes voluntarily? It is like in a constitutional monarchy, the prime minister decides everything, but the dignity and prestige of the king cannot be ignored.
The fifth part of "non shared thoughts": Men are afraid of loneliness
Psychologically speaking, men are animals who are very afraid of loneliness and loneliness. Single men go out for a drink or sleep at their friends' homes every night. It's not that they enjoy drinking or being very close to their friends. Their real reason is that they are afraid of being alone
Therefore, married men have every reason to believe that they should no longer feel lonely and lonely. So when men lose the whereabouts of their women or they return late or even don't, they become frightened like naked nuns in a busy city.
Part Six: Don't expect men to have the same appearance in their homes and homes
Women often complain that men are different from each other at home and abroad. Why is it that they are always so polite to outsiders and treat me like a tyrant? Why can't he also treat me better? Actually, women don't have to worry about it.
Because politeness has always been just a social necessity, and excessive politeness is harmful to the family without any benefits. When a man shows great courtesy towards a woman, it can only indicate that he has lost love for her or done something wrong to her.
The seventh part of "non partisan thoughts": Women should not confront men when they are angry
The pressure and hardships that men endure in society are something that women cannot experience, and this negative emotion is likely to be brought home by them. So men often find fault with women or throw tantrums at them without reason. When they get angry, they are not really dissatisfied with women, but rather venting their depressed emotions. At this point, men most need women's understanding and acceptance, and they need women to pay a considerable price of injustice. A tit for tat argument undoubtedly adds fuel to the fire for men.
Eighth of "Unstoppable Thoughts": Men also have jealousy
Men are no less jealous than women, and there are far more men who are prone to life-threatening battles and die under the sword of their rivals in love. If a woman truly loves her man, she should strive to understand the man's mixed self-esteem and vanity mentality, and be cautious in dealing with men's doubts and speculations. Proactively explaining the reasons and process of interacting with other men is not only a genuine understanding and concern for their own men, but also a supervision of women's words and actions.
The Ninth Principle of "Non Divided Thoughts": Do not speak freely about the right and wrong at home
Family shame should not be exposed. The right and wrong at home are inherently inexplicable things, and if combined with external rumors and rumors, a man's self-esteem will definitely collapse completely. At that time, even if a man intends to reconcile, it is still difficult to get off. If a woman really wants to solve a problem, her only choice is to close the door and slowly negotiate. Because men's housekeeping principle is: no outsiders are allowed to interfere in their internal affairs.
Ten of the "Non Divided Thoughts": Don't compare your husband and family with others
In the eyes of men, comparing a woman's own man and family to others is a serious betrayal of her own man and family. They cannot kindly understand women's original intentions and desires, and only subjectively believe that women are criticizing them and expressing dissatisfaction. They will also think passionately, if you are not satisfied, why don't you leave immediately?
