Post Date December, 03 2023
My boyfriend and I have been together for more than two years. He was also very motivated, worked hard and treated me very well. It helps me both in life and in material terms, but the only bad thing is that he is a playboy. I have found him sending messages with different women for the past two years, and recently found out that he was cheating! The naked photo was found on my mobile phone.
Every time he did something wrong, he would not admit it. Instead, he said that I was not comparable with him. Men and women are different. Men can do whatever they want, but women can't, and often abuse me with personality.
I have forgiven him again and again. I am thinking that as long as he is willing to admit his mistake and no longer contact with that woman, I can ignore it. But the thorn in his heart is still there... But he not only didn't admit his mistake, but also lied to me three times and four times for that woman, and also said that I was cheap.
I want to ask, is he not going to change? Is it because of my indulgence that he is so reckless? Because every time we make up, as long as he comes to me, I will be soft hearted. This time, he even deleted my WeChat, QQ and phone, and pulled them into the blacklist. He didn't want to contact me again. I was very confused. I wanted to marry him, but now I dare not think about it, but I can't let go of this relationship. He is sure. When he comes to me, I will take care of him.
What should I do?
reply:
What your boyfriend said is a bastard. What is a man? In his eyes, he doesn't look down on you at all. He doesn't have any respect for you. He is also too arrogant. He is proud of his cheating and cheating. What kind of mentality is this? He is a scoundrel.
It's a pity that you are not competitive. You are right. It is your incompatibility that makes him so arrogant and presumptuous. In fact, you don't understand. You know better than anyone that your boyfriend is not a good thing at all, but why are you willing to be cheap? He is so crazy. Do you think he will change? Whether he will change depends largely on your attitude, your bottom line and principles.
In fact, it's useless to say more. Your boyfriend has shown his attitude towards you with his actions. He is ready to give up on you completely. Even if he eats the trick you play, this time you have to fight for the woman's breath and can't give him any room for manoeuvre. He broke up well, which saved you trouble. If he doesn't want to break up with you, you have to take the initiative to break up with him. Otherwise, if he enters into marriage with such a person, do you think there will be a good life? You should thank him for pulling you decisively!
Girl, don't be silly again. When will you wait until you don't let go of this worthless relationship? If you really want to marry a scum, I can't help it, and I can't stop you.
