A man ejaculates with just a few jerks of his penis during intercourse. Many people believe that

Nowadays, it is not uncommon for couples to have "strong women and weak men" in their sexual lives. Many male compatriots even believe that they cannot "cope" with their wives, and some also believe that they suffer from symptoms such as impotence and premature ejaculation.

Men often "get premature ejaculation"

"During sexual intercourse, the penis twitched a few times before ejaculating. Many people believe that they have suffered from premature ejaculation." Professor Mao Xiangming, director of urology at the Southern Hospital of Southern Medical University, explained that in couples' lives, husbands often evaluate their sexual abilities based on their wives' satisfaction.

According to reports, because women's sexual excitement is relatively slow, orgasms come relatively slowly and long, and repeat many times; Men's sexual excitement is relatively fast, but orgasms come relatively short and fast, and the refractory period is long, so there is a time difference between men and women's orgasms. Coupled with the impact of mental stress, men who ejaculate slightly early are often considered to have premature ejaculation, which has a significant psychological impact on men's sexuality. Many outpatients who come to see premature ejaculation are actually quite normal.

The International Society of Sexual Medicine's Guide for the Diagnosis and Treatment of Premature Ejaculation (2010) defines premature ejaculation as a male sexual dysfunction characterized by "always or almost always ejaculating before or within about 1 minute after insertion into the vagina.". "Failure to delay ejaculation in all or almost all vaginal insertions, as well as negative personal consequences such as pain, annoyance, frustration, and/or avoidance behavior.".

In the real sexual life of couples, many male compatriots believe that they cannot "cope" with their wives. It often leads to depression and even suspicion of premature ejaculation or "not lifting". According to Mao Xiangming's analysis, from a physiological perspective, the sexual desire intensity of men and women should be basically consistent. In addition to disease and age, the factors that affect male sexuality are also important factors in terms of disharmony in sexual life.

He suggested that for partners and couples who have sexual disharmony, they can improve it by reading relevant sexual knowledge, or they can consult with male doctors and gynecologists in regular hospitals. Most of them can achieve satisfactory results by explaining sexual knowledge, eliminating adverse psychological effects and misconceptions, and providing sexual behavior guidance.