Post Date December, 03 2023
When two people fall in love, the words they say when quarreling are the most hurtful, because they understand each other and know which words can best hit the other's heart, both accurately and ruthlessly.
A man is a rational animal, and he will regard what a woman says when she is angry as her true words, and consider it to be the result of her rational thinking, without feeling that those words are offensive.
In fact, what a woman says when she is angry and frustrated sounds scary, but in fact, it's not really what the woman is saying, it's just an emotional release.
So, when a woman is arguing, the following five hurtful words cannot be said:
"Are you still a man?"
The subtext of a woman's statement is: I need your comfort and tolerance.
However, what a man hears is that she thinks I'm not a man, she's sarcastic and sarcastic about me, which greatly hurts my self-esteem.
Women do not know that this is the most damaging sentence to men's self-esteem, and it is a heavy hammer. After being beaten, in order to maintain their self-esteem, men will even fight back recklessly to prove that they are a real man.
Even if the fight is over, the injured man will exhibit a hegemonic and egoistic tendency towards male chauvinism in his later life.
"Break up"
"Breaking up is a phrase that women often say. When many women say this, they don't really want to break up, they just say it without thinking.".
Men don't take this sentence seriously at first, but the threat means that everyone can hear it, which can unconsciously breed anxiety. Especially for men who have no sense of security in their relationship, every time they listen to it, their hearts will suffer.
This sentence is similar to chronic toxicity, and its harm ranges from weak to strong, which can completely erupt in a heated argument in the future.
"Some words, when spoken too much, can generate powerful psychological cues. It is better to speak less, otherwise, in the end, lifting a stone can hit your own foot.".
"We really don't fit in"
Those women who are bent on transforming men like to say this sentence the most.
The effect of this sentence is to kill with a soft knife, without seeing blood, but it is painful and torturous, especially in the second half of a relationship.
Men will think that this is the result of careful consideration by women. If they do not actively change again, they are likely to lose the woman in front of them, but changing themselves is not an easy task.
There are many women who take the mutual adjustment of two people as just a change of one side, leaving themselves unchanged and allowing men to change. If you love me, you will change for me, otherwise you won't love me.
This is really torture!
"I really regret marrying you."
This sentence makes a man sound extremely uncomfortable and depressed. Although no woman has explicitly proposed a breakup, it also conveys the meaning of muddling through, seemingly declaring that their relationship exists in name only. The implication is that if it weren't for the sake of the child or something else, I would have paid you farewell.
"When a woman says this sentence, it means that she has despair about their marriage, and it is no use for a man to try again. The reason why she remains in the marriage is not for the sake of the man in front of her, but because of various helplessness.".
This is a dull punch that hits the body and hurts in the heart.
"I don't love you"
This is the most straightforward injury, bloody.
It means that a man has been busy for a long time, and all his efforts are in vain. He just missed putting on a green hat for the man.
This is the most thorough negation of men. It hurts the bones, it hurts the bones, it hurts the vitality. If you still love each other, don't play with this sentence.
After listening to this sentence, a man must be in a hurry, with blood surging upward, and it is easy to lose his sanity.
