Around us, many married friends complain that marriage is like a tomb and a cage, without any freedom or happiness. These people are all people who don't understand how to manage marriages. In fact, marriage, the so-called 'tomb and cage', can become a paradise, as long as you are willing to put in some effort to make a little change. Today, the editor will teach you a few tricks to help you better manage your marriage.
Wind in the ear
Busy work and life make it difficult for two people to have time to settle down and communicate, so it is easy to create barriers between them due to a lack of communication and interaction. Therefore, no matter how busy you are, make sure to take some time to communicate with your partner.
If you really don't have time, you can turn off the TV and throw away your work after both of you go to bed. Lie in bed and communicate softly with your partner, carefully looking into their eyes, and chatting together. In the middle of the silent moments, it's better to play a small game of rubbing your noses, which can quickly increase mutual intimacy.
Discovering Benefits
In real life, as two people spend more time together, they gradually discover more flaws and flaws in each other, and at this point, they will constantly complain and even give each other face. In fact, this is completely ineffective and often makes you unhappy. You might as well try to discover the strengths of the other person and praise them for these strengths. You will find the effect to be very great, it's like getting twice the result with half the effort!
Bathing together
Busy work may leave you with little time to do intimate things together, especially after having children. Children will constantly follow behind your buttocks for a moment, giving you even less time to be alone. However, you can't drive the child away. At this point, you might as well lock the bathroom door and take a shower with your lover! This way, you can stay away from the entanglement of children and relax by taking a warm bath. In this environment, you can let go of tense emotions, temporarily forget about trivial things in life, and focus on enjoying the warmth of this moment.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)