In life, many people are unwilling to deal with children because they can be unreasonable. However, besides children, women are also relatively difficult to get along with. Therefore, Confucius once said, "Only women are difficult to raise with small people. If they are close, they will not have grandchildren, and if they are far away, they will complain." However, when dealing with women, it is necessary to have strategies and attention, otherwise it is easy to hurt their hearts.
Actions that can break a woman's heart
1、 Women are most afraid of men saying she looks ugly
If you are truly honest, even if she is ugly, for a woman, it is a serious damage to her self-esteem, so it is important to speak out and be virtuous.
2、 Women are most afraid of men criticizing their parents
Her parents may be your parents. You should know that a woman lives with her parents for at least twenty years, and you only have a few years of friendship with her! Men who insist on competing with old men and women, like chubby girls who like to compare their bodies to middle-aged sister-in-law, are purely ridiculous manifestations of the disadvantaged group.
3、 Women are most afraid that men often haggle over every detail
If you invite a woman to dine together for the first time, it is recommended to bring enough RMB. The beautiful woman at the next table even ordered some small snacks after a big meal of abalone and bird's nest, and even a rose from a flower boy.
And when you finish eating two plates of fried noodles at your table, the two of you can only stare blankly. At this moment, you warmly invite a woman to your bachelor's dormitory for a night chat. I believe that as long as this woman is not an idiot, she will definitely consider you an idiot. At this moment, except for the woman's heartwarming mockery of you and your fried noodles, you will get nothing. To understand that applying frugality to certain fields is absolutely foolish, and to remember that investment and return are always proportional.
4、 Women are most afraid of men's narrow gaze, regardless of right or wrong
If a man has a hobby of being a sister-in-law and wastes his work energy talking about the extramarital affairs of the Wang family today and the teacher-student relationship of the Li family tomorrow, and a woman actually admires your boring speech, then she is either empty or definitely homosexual. Take some experience from Takakura Kenji. If your ideological consciousness is indeed not beyond the level of your aunt, staying silent is the best choice.
5、 Women are most afraid of men's tendency to dislike old things, and they hope for success in the long run
If a man obtains a woman who can meet his basic life needs and then cast a net to pursue pleasure, it is a manifestation of disrespect for women and emotions. A woman who knows self-esteem will not hesitate to leave you. And if there are still women around such men, it can be certain that they are also foolish and not self respecting women, which also shows that the prey that hunting men get is always inferior.