When the initial mystery of loving each other fades, happiness depends on the emotional habits formed by the two in life, because the partner is more concerned about: are you someone who can share difficulties? Are you selfish? Can you manage your family finances? Only good habits can provide answers, they will make you happier.
1. Screening out non principle issues
The lights he chose for the living room were too difficult to watch; He was half an hour late due to traffic congestion; He forgot one of your anniversaries because he was busy with the project. If you're sure you're still in love, none of this matters. To make life refreshing and comfortable, all you need to do is prepare a sieve to filter out all non principled issues.
2. No unfounded suspicion and delusion
He came home very late yesterday. When it comes to one of his female colleagues, his gaze dodges. Last quarter, he didn't pay his bonus, maybe he set up a small vault... If a woman wants to trouble herself, even if the whole world tries to save her, it's useless. He changed his mind. Is there any evidence? Don't daydream without it. Besides, if he really changes his mind, will you die? Of course not. One day in the future, you may even want to thank him for giving you a chance to live better and meet a better man.
3. Always be a 'growth stock'
Whether your man is a "potential stock" or a "performance stock", if you are a "junk stock" yourself, sooner or later you will lose him. Only by becoming a 'growth stock' can we have the possibility of falling in love with him all along. So, at any time, it's right to strive to be a tree that grows towards the sky.
4. Occasionally treating men like children
Transposition thinking is a very important skill in life. In today's society, every man is like a long-distance horse, with no end but a long journey. When he falls asleep on the sofa when he comes home from work, and refuses to get up for breakfast on Sunday mornings, it's better to treat him as a helpless and tired child. Occasional indulgence and indulgence will only make men more faithful around you.
5. Remembering happy things
Pleasant and unpleasant memories are two sides of the same coin, present in every relationship. Do you know about the butterfly effect? People who often pretend to be unhappy in their hearts will truly become unhappy in life. On the contrary, if you remember the expression on his proposal, the warmth in his embrace, and the tenderness in his warm feet on snowy days during a quarrel, your relationship will spiral upward.
6. Frequent reflection
The words I said in anger last time were too hurtful. Even a missile was extinguished. He was sick, and you even ran out to meet your old lover. Knowing that his business situation has been poor lately and he is struggling, he is still clamoring to change to a bigger house. Frequent reflection not only makes people around you happy, but also makes you more and more outstanding.