Post Date December, 03 2023
When you go out and get ready to take care of your sister, whether it is because of the case that the strange guy next to you messed up everything about your sister? At that time, you are so tearless that you are ashamed to say that you are "mentally abnormal". So, it seems that the gold medal "wingman" of brotherhood is still very knowledgeable. Let's share it with the talent.
A few years ago, I gradually understood that when you go out to chat up women, the most potential obstacle to your success is not other passers-by A, but your partner. you 're right! Your partner has a higher chance of destroying an affair than anyone else.
Why is this? Unless you meet a wonderful person, generally speaking, strangers are more polite and considerate than your friends. When you chat with the goddess, your friend will "take it for granted" to intervene in your conversation.
They think that as your friend, they have something to do with you and have the right to mess up your life. After a big deal, let you beat up.
Take a friend of mine for example. He is 28, handsome, smart and interesting, and absolutely transmits positive energy. It's a great honor to be with him. Except for one thing: he is by no means a qualified wingman in the Bad Boys College community.
One night, we went out to play, and then I saw a girl who was very close to my eyes and looked for an opportunity to chat with her. When she was about to go out, I found a chance to talk with her. At the right time, he suddenly rushed over and said, "Hey! That girl looks like your former gun friend!"
Not to mention how untimely his jokes were, which destroyed the good image he had built in front of her. He also made a mistake:
He interrupted me without permission.
From these experiences, I have drawn the golden rule of doing a good wingman. There is only one principle:
"Failure to help me means hindering me." Simple and clear!
On the same night, I chatted with four girls. He stood four meters away from me and chatted with a group of buddies he had just met. I saw him many times, and then I waved to him. He didn't seem to hear me at all. He kept talking and ignored me.
After 15 minutes, three girls began to feel bored, so they left with my goal.
In this case, it was obvious that I needed backup, but he didn't help me. Not helping me means pulling my back.
Such examples are countless. I think you have something similar. It's torture to have such a wingman. Here are some suggestions for making a good wingman, which you can use to give advice to your brother or to encourage yourself:
1. Hold the scale well
I'm talking with a girl. Don't interrupt me unless I specifically ask. Don't be within 2 meters of me, because it's hard to ignore you. When you are needed, show up! Stay away when you don't need it.
2. Learn to compliment
If I bring you into the group, the following activities must convey the meaning of "I am your best friend". I will introduce you to the target, and then you should have a pleasant chat with everyone, until your position is indispensable.
Of course, the higher level is to say something that sounds sincere and improves my value laterally. For example, "Adu has many wonderful stories to tell", "You are the most interesting people in the party!"
3. Positive points
If I am trying to open the six-person combination, three of them are already looking around and waiting for the opportunity to leave. It's not important for them to leave, but the key is that they will take my goal away. A good wingman should appear at the right time to re-activate the group atmosphere.
This is especially suitable for two-person groups. I target one person, so the other is easy to be ignored. At this time, the wingman must appear to get the target. No matter how disagreeable the companion is, you are the wingman and you have the task. After doing well, everything is easy to discuss.
4. Stay alert
Yes! We go out to have fun. Drinking is unavoidable. But it is more important to ensure the personal safety of the companion than to pick up a sister.
Once I met a thing. One of my friends accidentally drank too much, so I had to give up the girl I had arranged with and take care of him all night. I originally wanted to have fun together, but this kind of situation messed up.
5. Distinguish objectives
If you hit a goal first, you have priority, and vice versa. If you are not sure whether I have chatted with this target, just pull me aside and ask. There are so many brainless frustrated men at the party. You don't have to squeeze in.
