Post Date December, 03 2023
1、 We must persist in not being Xianglin's sister-in-law
After getting married, a woman discovers that her husband has many problems and becomes a motherly woman, like a Xianglin sister-in-law, who likes to nag and makes men uneasy. There is only one family, so the man has nowhere to hide and nowhere to hide. He can accept it in one year, endure it in two years, cannot tolerate it in three years, and run away in four years. So, if you want men to run away, women should not be Xianglin sister-in-law. A man is working hard outside, busy all day, tired all day, and when he returns home, if a woman nags like Xianglin sister-in-law, or if her nagging is still full of gunpowder, then the home that should have relaxed her body and mind has become a cold battlefield. In fact, men most need to rely on the warmth of women to relax themselves, and most need a marital relationship to nourish their tired body and mind. If men's subconscious needs are not met for a long time, other women may enter the man's inner world.
2、 Persist in not being a yellow faced woman
Women are animals that live in emotional illusions, but they are also very practical animals. Therefore, during love, women show a charming side, but once they get married, they easily become casual, allowing the wind and frost of time to run over their faces, their hair messy, their clothes wrinkled and loose, wearing pajamas to go on the streets, wearing slippers to travel, loving to manage people, and being able to curse the streets, they are completely the image of a yellow faced woman, without charm or attraction to speak of. To learn how to take care of oneself, detoxification and beauty enhancement are absolutely essential. There are many ways to make oneself young and beautiful for a long time... Of course, a woman's youth cannot last forever, but basic grooming and dressing are always necessary, and basic cultural image is still necessary. Marriage is not the watershed for a woman to turn yellow. To maintain a man's heart, a woman must first maintain her "face".
3、 Persist in affirmation and praise
Husband and wife should be harmonious. "Affirmation" is the magic weapon, and "praise" is the secret recipe. Do not deny, affirm more, criticize less, and praise more. Even the worst person has advantages, not to mention the man you choose. Beauty is in the eyes of the lover, not just before marriage, but after marriage, you should also have a vision of "beauty is in the eyes of the lover". Look more at the advantages, and men should praise and even worship.
Men have a hero complex in their bones, and they want to be admired by women. Therefore, it is not difficult to conquer a man. Praise him, worship him, and he will surrender under your skirt. When a man is successful, he needs the praise and admiration of a woman. When a man is disappointed, he needs the affirmation and encouragement of a woman, so that he will always be your "treasure" and will never be left behind.
4、 It's about adhering to tolerance and consideration
A man is like a big boy, no matter how successful his career is or how powerful the workplace is, his heart is still fragile and needs to be considerate and tolerant of women.
There are indeed many temptations of eroticism outside, but a gentle, considerate, and tolerant wife can not only detect the traces of her husband's inner turmoil, but also use tenderness to melt and hold his heart. A man's eroticism is not terrifying, but what is terrifying is that a woman herself has played a role in driving the waves.
Many women who think they are very smart believe that as long as they keep a close eye on and manage men well, everything is okay, so the so-called "strict wife management" has also emerged. A man's whereabouts must be reported to a woman, and a man must demand money from a woman. On the surface, everything about a man is under the control of a woman, but it is actually counterproductive.
If a woman is tolerant and generous, giving her husband full freedom, and being the noble person behind her husband, this is the wise approach that captures the man's heart. The more you care about him, the more you run outside. You think the outside world is very exciting, but in fact, letting him go out and take a look is better than the people around you.
Men are animals of power and sexual desire, always wanting something novel and exciting, but not all men are bad. When a man is tempted by eroticism, it is the wife who pushes her husband to the forefront of temptation, and other women also take advantage of it. The best way to keep a husband away from sexual temptations is for a woman to be good at herself. If she catches her husband's heart, she will catch him, and all temptations will be unbearable. Of course, whether a man can control his lust and resist the temptation of eroticism depends on himself. A man who knows that his beloved wife is at home but still knows his blessings is hopeless. Being a considerate wife not only requires external expression, but also internal importance.
