Post Date December, 03 2023
Attitude determines everything. This sentence is absolutely true! If you say why a person is successful, his attitude to work is definitely 120%, and so is marriage. Your attitude is not correct, which also proves that you are not focused on feelings. How can such a marriage be happy and sweet?
Marriage attitude is a psychological tendency formed by the feelings and inner intentions of couples in the process of communication and in-depth understanding of each other. Most couples believe that marriage does not need to cover up and control their own thoughts and behaviors, and that since the other party is married to you, they must tolerate everything. Although couples should be "transparent" to each other, they should not indulge their own mistakes and shortcomings, expose them and force the other to accept them. This attitude is distorted and deformed. It is disrespect for the lover and marriage, which will only bring negative effects to the marriage.
In fact, the incompatibility of husband and wife's attitude is the first "killer" to destroy feelings. Attitude represents the stratification of marriage, family and partner in your heart. Bad words and deeds objectively reflect your incorrect attitude, even very bad. Maybe it won't make much difference if it happens once or twice. At most, it will be reconciled after noise. However, "a little makes a lot". When your partner's bad attitude towards you has reached the point of unbearable, marriage will face imbalance. If we want to make our marriage happy and sweet, what we need to do is to make our feelings indestructible and respect each other.
First, the attitude towards your lover will not change from beginning to end. After marriage, you should still treat your spouse with respect, love and care for each other. You should always care about the dynamics and mood of each other. Don't let your spouse think you are a "white-eyed wolf", and you don't care if you get it.
Second, pay attention to the details of life to reduce contradictions. Small things in life can reflect a person's attitude. Don't let yourself do things that make your lover angry. Bad habits must be corrected. Never let your lover tolerate your mistakes. You are no longer a child, and your lover is not your guardian, and have no obligation to spoil you. Remember, don't do evil because it is small!
Third, strengthen the communication between husband and wife. Communication and communication are the most basic means to resolve conflicts and enhance feelings. Never blindly take into account your own feelings and ignore your lover's feelings; Don't always think that the other party will "understand" you and understand you, but he/she is also so eager; Don't let the conflict intensify, or think that he/she will tolerate it if he/she is "cruel enough". Remember, no one in the world can turn without it! Therefore, couples must communicate rationally, point out each other's mistakes in the most gentle and tactful way, and work together to correct them. Only in this way can marriage be happy and sweet.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
