This is what a man taught me: When your husband no longer loves you and wants to divorce you, the only thing you can do is strive for your interests as much as possible.
Many men cannot resist the temptation of an affair. The novelty and excitement of an affair are like the poisonous apple of Snow White, which has a fatal attraction for men. In addition to their own wife, they also have a woman, a relationship, and a woman who loves and cares for you. This allows men to move forward bravely in an external encounter like moths to the flames. Although the taste of an affair is stimulating and sweet, once the affair is exposed and known by the wife, it can also be enough to make a man unable to finish eating and walking around. Especially when a woman knows that her husband has an affair, whether she will make love or hate or not knows what behavior she will make. When a man enjoys the taste of an affair, she also has an uneasy feeling of an untimely bomb in her heart.
If this sentence is said by a woman, you may feel that she is a bit too realistic, but if it is said by a man, it is from the bottom of his heart.
When a man changes his mind, no matter how much you blame him, it won't help. Even if you cry all day, he won't change his decision. Although you constantly remind him of how good he was to you and how much he loved you before, he can only say sadly, "This is all over."
When he feels guilty about you, try to gain more benefits for yourself (and perhaps your children). At this time, he will give you everything. After a while, when he hardens his heart, he may even haggle with you.
Smart women know how to strive for more benefits during the two most vulnerable periods of a man's life, when he loves her most and feels guilty about her.