Post Date December, 03 2023
As a woman of the new era, she not only needs to be able to get into the hall and kitchen, but also needs to be able to fight against the mistress, which is not enough to dig corners. Being able to enjoy the best and endure the worst. My husband has an affair, and if he wants to be able to make a decisive decision, he should be ruthless and decisive, never dragging the boat or being too strong to be approached. It's about understanding what to do and how to handle it. What should a man do when he has an affair and threatens to abandon his wife?
Firstly, you need to pretend not to hear, but don't be idle. Don't take a man's words to heart. The reason for saying that is because he must have grievances in his heart. Or at least someone has scolded him for this matter. What you need to do is to figure out how to stabilize the current situation and then consider good strategies. A man wants to abandon his wife and children. If he really does, can you accept it? If you can accept it, don't be sad anymore. If you can't accept it, then focus on thinking about countermeasures. If you don't understand anything, hire a professional lawyer or family counselor to understand how to handle the problem between the two of you.
Secondly, you need to understand not to argue but to fight wits. When encountering problems, bickering is never the best solution. What you need is to fight wits. If you can make the other party understand that the result of abandoning his wife and children will only make him appear cheap, he will not do so. The reason why a man is so arrogant is often because he has not positioned himself well. A man with good quality will not easily cheat after marriage, and even if he cheats, he will not easily give up his family. In fact, men pay more attention to family stability than women, because these are the inner confidence they possess when galloping in the workplace. If a man has no family, even though he is rich and powerful, his heart is always empty.
Once again, if he wants a divorce, you need to control all your assets and let him go clean. Since he wants to abandon his wife and children, you need to control all of his property, not easily agree to divorce him, and also give your children a follow-up guarantee. Since he is so ruthless, don't blame you for being unjust. He is for a woman, and you are for his descendants. Even if your relationship is gone, you still want your child to know that his father doesn't love him, at least leaving him with basic guarantees that he won't be hungry or have no money to read in the future. After you make these material guarantees, don't worry about the rest. The more you encounter problems, the more you need to know how to grasp the main points.
A woman's intention to marry a man in this lifetime is to rely on, but a cooked duck can also fly. In this situation, a woman should not make herself difficult again. To find a way, if you can keep such a man, don't force him to stay. To understand how to protect one's legitimate rights and interests, and to give children a basic protection, in order to avoid leaving regrets in the future. The biggest mistake is not getting along with oneself, not eating or drinking. You should know that since men do it, they won't consider your feelings. Who cares if you are so sad? Don't take men too seriously, in fact, in this society, no one has left as before. If you really have the courage, perhaps men won't dare to do it again?
